My boyfriend told me he pleasures himself to other females. Should I leave?

[Anonymous]

[__MisterGoneShiner__]

It means that you can't fulfill his needs.
Do you REJECT him in bed too much?

Do you ever think that it's your fault?
Don't think so. And yes, if you won't stay with him to give him even a little BJ when he is aroused, then yes... HE DESERVES BETTER THAN YOU.

Let me give you a secret as a GUY...
If he really does and stopped to ask you to have sex, then he prefers others because he doesn't love you anymore.

As they say, TRUTH HURTS, baby. Deal with it.

[NamerOfStars]

Well, does it bother you? The simple reality is that he's going to find other women attractive; this is just how humans work. If his acting on it, even if only in the form of masturbation, then you probably SHOULD take action, though the exact form that takes is up to you to determine, whether that's leaving or upping your involvement to meet his needs that aren't being met.