What Do I Do If My Wife Yells At Me?

[blackjack]

My wife and I just got married. We haven't had a big fight yet, but I don't know how to act in case it does. If she yells at me, do you think I should take it down as a gentleman?

[Light909090]

Tell her Arguments lead no where and then simply walk away.
If she continues that Behavior simply tell her That we are Adults and will talk it out like adults. tell her only children yell and tell her if you wanna act like a Child and not an Adult then we will not talk until your ready to act like your age.

[AI Opinion]

My brother had this problem with his wife until recently and they were yelling at each other a lot. Their marriage was badly affected by this and they went to a family therapist. As far as I heard from them, I will try to summarize below how crisis moments in a relationship should be managed...

What do you do when your wife yells at you?

It's not always easy to know how to react when your wife yells at you.

After all, you probably didn't do anything wrong - so why is she so angry?

There are a few things you can do to defuse the situation and hopefully get to the bottom of what's really bothering her:

• First, try to stay calm yourself. It's hard to keep a level head when you're being yelled at, but it's important to try. If you can remain calm, it will help diffuse the situation.
• Second, try to listen to what she's saying. She's obviously upset about something, so she's probably trying to communicate that to you. If you can understand what she's trying to say, you can hopefully address the issue and resolve it.
• Third, try to talk to her after she's calmed down. Once the initial anger has passed, she'll be more receptive to a rational discussion. If you can talk to her calmly and figure out what the problem is, you can hopefully solve it.
• Fourth, try to understand her feelings. If you can understand why she's so angry, you can hopefully address the issue in a way that will resolve it. Maybe she's feeling overwhelmed or stressed out. Maybe she's just having a bad day. If you can understand her feelings, you can hopefully find a way to help her feel better.
• Fifth, try to be supportive. Sometimes, all a person needs is a little support. Maybe she just needs you to listen to her and offer a shoulder to cry on. Maybe she needs your help to solve the problem. Whatever she needs, try to be supportive and understanding.
• Lastly, try to apologize if you did something wrong. Even if you didn't mean to, sometimes our actions can unintentionally hurt the ones we love. If you did something that upset her, apologize and try to make things right.

No one likes to be yelled at, but sometimes it's unavoidable. If your wife is angry and yelling at you, try to stay calm, listen to what she's saying, and be supportive. If you can do these things, you can hopefully diffuse the situation and resolve the issue.

Is it normal for your spouse to yell at you?

It's normal for your spouse to yell at you if you're married. Yelling is a form of communication, and it's one way to express anger. If your spouse is angry with you, it's likely that he or she will yell. That doesn't mean, however, that you have to take it. You can try to calm your spouse down by talking calmly and reasonably. If that doesn't work, you can always leave the room.

How yelling affects the marriage?

When you yell at your spouse, it’s like you’re throwing a grenade into your marriage. It’s destructive and can do serious damage to your relationship. Yelling is a form of verbal abuse, and it’s one of the quickest ways to erode the trust and respect in a marriage.

Yelling is a sign of an unhealthy relationship. It’s a sign that something is wrong and that the communication is breaking down. If you find yourself yelling at your spouse, it’s important to take a step back and try to figure out what’s causing the problem.

There are many reasons why people yell at their spouses:

• It could be out of frustration, anger, or even fear.
• Maybe you’re feeling overwhelmed and you take it out on your spouse.
• Maybe you’re afraid of conflict and you use yelling as a way to avoid it.

Whatever the reason, yelling is never a good solution. It’s important to find a better way to communicate with your spouse. Yelling will only make the problem worse and it will damage your relationship.

[andreasderjuengere]

From my own experience: it's best to not yell back, but to offer a hug and to say: ''I love you, too'' :D

To de-fuse a ''situation'' always gives better results than to launch nukes towards each other.

[spartan55]

How long have been together that you haven't had a fight?

[OddBeMe]

I think some women (esp wives) just need to vent. I’ve learned to just say sorry and let it go. doesn't mean you can't bitch at her. can't scream like she does, but still…