Girlfriend yells at me all the time?

[Anonymous]

I'm getting tired of it. Over the smallest things, she gets pissed or throws a really disrespectful tone. From me suggesting she stop procrastinating and do some work, to me simply being unable to help her find her lost wallet. No matter what I do, there is typically something that makes her angry and get mad. I feel enough like her slave anyway, pretty much doing everything for her. If she needs a favor, I'm right there.

I just don't know what to do lately. I always put her before myself, do whatever I can to make her happy. I never yell or get upset at her, and I'm always the one doing things for her. Its starting to make me depressed... I don't want to break up with her though. Its been 2 years, and she didn't always act this way.

[LenaValentina214]

There's something troubling her. She could be upset or feeling a certain way about anything. The best thing to do is to talk to her about how she is making you feel, but talk calmly. She could open up and tell you what it is that is bothering her. She could have the mentality that "you should know what's wrong" but guys aren't psychics and I was the same way sadly, but have improved and though it's hard to talk about my feelings directly with my boyfriend, I try to be as clear and direct as possible because I just want to get over this bump and continue to the good times. It's harder if she is the stubborn type but she will realize you really do care if you confront her nicely about it. And if there is nothing wrong with her and she's just changed you have to really know what you want and think about options.

[KellyM23]

Something must be going on with her. She must be stressed about something.

There has to be a reason behind it.

[TooOldForThis5545]

This woman has a bad attitude, and she flies off the handle at the slightest provocation. Would you want to spend the next 50-60 years with a woman who acts like that? I wouldn't. She may not have acted this way before, but you've been with her two years, so you've had more time to find out what kind of person she really is.

Imagine the pain and heartache associated with a break-up, especially when it's someone you care deeply about. Now multiply that anguish by 100. That's what it feels like to spend your life with the wrong person.

[Anonymous]

time to warm the pimp hand up