How many dates in until you become boyfriend and girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

[HighValue]

After 3 dates I would either consider it an exclusive relationship if I was going to continue seeing her, or I would end it and move on.

[Asker]

Me and this guy went out 5 times and we’ve brought up like relationship stuff but he hasn’t asked me to be exclusive or anything yet.

[HighValue]

I think people are automatically exclusive after continuing to go out with the same person more than a few dates. The only people that wouldn't be exclusive after that without even needing to discuss it are the types that normally have casual sex and are likely to cheat.

[Asker]

Well he usually always texts me first but today I reached out to him and he told me he was sorry and that he was so busy today. I don't know, maybe he lost interest.

[Guy13]

It happens when you both agree to it. Sometimes it is 5 and sometimes 25…

[mr4435669]

Nope.

[MightyOlivia84]

Well depends after 3- 4 dates i can consider.

[slatyb]

When you are seeing each other regularly andcarentbdating others.

[Anonymous]

there is no limit. It takes as often as it will take. However consider also that first come first taken.

[maximumpower]

Not dependent upon number of dates; rather, progress of the relationship.

[mr4435669]

I put it on the first date.

[CloudMassacre]

I’m not sure, I think it depends on the vibe

[LemiaOfThunder]

Depends how well the dates went.

[anylolone]

Until you both define yourself this way.

[panamared1]

all it really takes is one

[sheikalana]

I'd say a month.

[Anonymous]

asshole you're an asshole

[dreamstar72]

Three