My guy friend fantasize about me sexually, we share a deep soul connection ( he agrees with that to) but he say he love his LDR girlfriend, so?

[Deimy]

[Anonymous]

That is at least 1 red flag showing that his girlfriend isn't enough to satiate him.
I pity her.

And I would pity YOU if you're thinking of taking a chance with him. Having a girlfriend should mean having a "soul mate." Or at least it's supposed to. These days, love means very little to a lot of people. So if he can fantasize about you while with his supposed "soul mate," then what makes you think he won't do it to you too if you happen to start dating him?