Broke up while still in love?

[Anonymous]

Hi, my boyfriend was supposed to come fly out to see me this weekend. However, his joint custody agreement says that he has to watch his kids on the weekends… he gets into some trouble for this so has to cancel. Since I’m in college, I’m only free to see him on weekends but that’s the days for his kids. So we talked on the phone this morning and he says relationship will not work bc there’s no work around to being able to see each other and I deserve something less complicated. We both cry and say we love each other.

something in me wants to fight for our relationship but I know it will make this harder for him. I just loved him so much. So so so much and I know nobody will compare. Should I? Or should I just leave it be? Should I try to fly out to see him one last time this weekend?
What can we do… we still plan to keep in touch but I just want to be able to date and kiss him.

[kylee2437]

I say leave it be. Even if you do love him, you do deserve a fulfilling relationship and time made for you and unfortunately with his circumstances, it’s way too challenging for him to make time and that is not fair to you. If it’s meant to be, it will find its way back but for now, I would just leave the break up be

[1975Chocolate]

I know it hurts, but I say you should leave it be. At the end of the way, you should be happy too. You should get the time you deserve. Focus on college. As someone who use to be relationships with fathers, it is better this way.