He always says he is going to try and find time for me alone but it hasn’t happened yet. I don’t even like going over because I think he’s too tired?

[bbhhgirl]

So my boyfriend sometimes work Monday -Sunday from about 9am till almost 8pm at night. He then wants me to meet him at his place sometimes and have dinner at almost 9pm then I spend the night but all we do is maybe watch a movie but he falls right to sleep or we have sex. I never get time with him alone really until night when kids are in bed …

[Anonymous]

I get it, my boyfriend works from 11am-11pm, takes him an hour to get to my house and by that time we get maybe an hour together before he falls asleep. It can be a tough arrangement, and it’s genuinely not for everyone. I don't know what your bfs off days are like, but if he has free time during those days then he should be sure to spend at least some of it with you. If he doesn’t even try then it’s definitely a problem, I wouldn’t be with my boyfriend if we didn’t have those days together.

[BlueScorpio]

Well you know he's at work most of the day, what do you expect? He's working 7 days a week straight, he's basically exhausted. Maybe he could try getting a new schedule but until then he's just something the both of you have to work with.

[Guy13]

What are you doing in relationship you constantly complain about ⁉️

[Emiliamazing]

Simply put, time has to be made for each other. You both have to want it.