How do you make the person you love happy?

[whoisvolkan]

What can you do for the person you love? Do you have a limit?

[dynamicyandere]

I agree with @Chazmatazz269. Wise words. I know this to be true from a couple of my own relationships. It’s one thing to cheer them up. It’s another when it devolves into entitlement and they expect you to make them happy all the time, like you become their living breathing antidepressant. It becomes a one-sided relationship where you do you can to make them happy and you feel spent. But if all they can do is take take take, they won’t be able to give you the love you need and you’ll end up feeling emotionally drained.


So, their happiness is not your responsibility. And, your happiness is not their responsibility. Make sure your relationship doesn’t devolve into something it shouldn’t be.


But… With that in mind… All you need to focus on is being the best boyfriend or girlfriend you can be. Treat them well. Care for them, genuinely. Love them deeply. And build a fulfilling relationship together, like a beautiful garden you two are planting and nurturing together.


It’s not just them focusing on YOU or you focusing on THEM. It’s BOTH of you focusing on bettering the relationship you have together. It’s a team effort. That’s how you end up with a happy and healthy relationship. ☺️

[UdosUNDERDEVELOPMENT]

Love for me is universesal in terms of treating others goodly in all ways possible ; speech , emotions , hopes , dreams , preferences , and all forms of communications and expressions. But you should not forget to love yourself at the same time as well , because if you neglect yourself you will likely become abused in some way. This love you can express towards everyone and everything. If you can help others then do , but not to the extent of abuse towards self or others. Also not everyone and not everything are compatible , some compositions simply should not be mixed because it would create discomforts and abuses. This goes for situations as well , not all situations , friendly , neighbourly , or romantic will result in pleasant and comfortable experiences , so if you or your collaborator are uncomfortable or you think there will be discomfort then you should not commit to those situations. You can still love and respect everyone and everything and not be around them.

[dustybiker]

I listen. The details mean the very most. Remembering the little things and pulling them out when needed can mean a great deal to someone. It shows you care enough to pay attention to them. It makes them feel worthy.

Memorizing when they mention things they like, places they want to go to. Anything any everything. It makes surprising them especially fun.

[Pinay_ako]

Just by showing them respect and lots of affection… and be there for them and to never ever make them feel that they’re alone… 💕

[ethanallen]

Each of us is responsible for his or her own happiness. No other person or thing or situation will make you or I happy.

" I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through him who gives me strength."

Phillipians 4:12-13

[Chazmatazz269]

You don’t. A person is 100% responsible for their own happiness. You can’t do it for them. If you even try, you automatically make yourself fully responsible for their sadness too. Then the relationship is doomed.

[Guy13]

Ephesians 5 tells both boy and girl how to behave. It is deep the relationship between Service and Love… All marriage and couple counseling fundamentals are based upon that book. Search.

[ethanallen]

You should have include the text of Ephesians 5 , otherwise nobody would no what the fuck you are talking about. I've included it below. I hope Jesus will forgive my fucking language.
" Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God." Ephesians 5:1-2

[Guy13]

@ethanallen Your choice of language is a real seller to the secularists, by the way...

[ethanallen]

It was a joke. Christians cannot laugh at themselves. They are almost as crazy as Muslims

[Twalli]

I know what she likes and I try to maximize things with that. For example, her favorite player is Yadier Molina. So I got her tickets to one of the last games of this season, and his career. It is also the day where they're giving out a Yadier Molina bobblehead. The last game I took her to was the Yadier Molina funko pop distribution. We didn't get the special gold or platinum ones though.

[Ezra_lila]

Just love him, do what I think make him happy. Less arguments more on understanding and open to communication when its not okay with me already I need to speak and talked about it. Beside honest mind means a happy heart.

[FallonSamuels]

By loving them how they feel most loved - with their love language, by listening and understanding them. Being understood is the highest form of intimacy.

[LordBailey]

The only person I truly love in this world is my daughter. For her I'll shift the entire weight of my company and resources to ensure her health , safety and happiness.
She wants for nothing, she gets her hair done, nails, everything. There is no limit, ever.

[JosyJosy]

Ask him how he is, he knows he can tell me if there's something wrong, if he's feeling sad. When he gets home he can count on my loving embrace, a hot meal, a dessert ;)

[JustiReno]

I would maybe eat her pussy sometimes and try to clean her up after sex instead of hopping in the shower first and falling asleep before she’s out 😳

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You can't make someone be happy nor is it your responsibility.

You can add to someone's happiness and bring joy when you can, but to think you can always try to bring happiness to someone's life is totally unrealistic.

[NathanDavis]

cheesecake...

the limit is two cheesecake per day

[Supermomof3]

Make them feel 100% just exactly the way I want to be treated! Love is a gift!

[red324]

I try they don't let me...

[Supermomof3]

Then they don’t deserve you

[Anonymous]

Give up. Trust me. Don’t waste your life trying to satisfy a girl who won’t love you. Find a girl who will. Don’t make the same mistake millions of other guys have chasing after a girl who don’t love them.

[EaterPeter]

Listen, empathize, help them fulfill them their dreams. be there physically. Participate. However. Meet with their values. Don't fight about small things.

[Brinadarlingxx]

Just be there for them for whatever they need. Support is important. Being considerate to their feelings. Putting their needs above your own. I should’ve done that. You can say all the nice words you want, actions speak way louder anyways.

[Anonymous]

Aside from lots of sex the way he likes it, I always try to make sure my man knows I appreciate and need him. That keeps him happy.

[LavLavLuv]

Be there for them, listen and understand them.. Maybe cook them their favorite food😌

[Still-alive]

Whats your fave? carrots?

[LavLavLuv]

Yes..

[Still-alive]

carrot cake for youuuu. hop hop

[LavLavLuv]

Thank you 😂😂

[Blackcosmo]

@Still-alive Mmmm that looks delicious

[dexter234]

Do little things for him/her often and grand gestures once in a while to let them know they're special

[clampfan101]

What you can do partly depends on them as an individual.

[maximumpower]

Depends on the person.
Tried that one time. No matter how much I tried, it was never enough.

[abhi44444]

By showing her my all emotion respecting her disrespecting accepting her so on

[melanieeeB]

By simply just existing lmaoo

[monkeynutts]

Eat her pussy. That always works.

[Anonymous]

I find out what makes her happy.