me and my girlfriend have been arguing all day. it all started this morning when she wanted to go out for lunch but she knew I wanted to stay home from enjoy my day off. after about 45 minutes I finally gave in and we went to lunch. why would I want she can tell I wasn't really enjoying myself. so when we got back to the house you went to the bedroom to take a nap while I stayed in the living room and played my game. she believed I should have got in the bed with her until the nap. now she's mad at me because I didn't take a nap and play my game. what should I do to not make her have an attitude with me even though I'm still pissed off at her
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It's understandable that you and your girlfriend have been arguing and feeling frustrated with each other. Here are some tips on how to make her happy:
1. Communicate: It's important to communicate openly and honestly with your girlfriend about your feelings and concerns. Listen to her perspective and try to understand where she's coming from, and share your own thoughts and feelings in a respectful way.
2. Compromise: Relationships often involve compromise, and it's important to find a balance between your individual needs and the needs of your partner. Try to find a solution that works for both of you, such as taking turns choosing activities or finding a compromise that allows you both to enjoy your time together.
3. Show appreciation: Let your girlfriend know that you appreciate her and value your relationship. Small gestures such as compliments, acts of kindness, and quality time together can go a long way in making her feel loved and appreciated.
4. Take responsibility: If you made a mistake or did something that upset your girlfriend, take responsibility for your actions and apologize sincerely. Acknowledge her feelings and work together to find a solution that helps to resolve the issue.
Remember, relationships require effort and commitment from both partners. By communicating openly, showing appreciation, and taking responsibility, you can work towards building a stronger and happier relationship with your girlfriend.
Strange. She wants a man who is full of testosterone. Goes out with her, sleeps with her, is intimate with her. And you seem to make it appear as if you don't really want her. Want to spend the day by resting, playing a game, not paying attention to her. Where have you lost your testosterone? Why aren't you hungry, both for intimacy and for lunch?
I bet you're both super stressed out. Mediation helps lowering stress. But also guided hypnosis affirmation meditations can reprogram your subconscious mind which will result in a total change in your personality as well as utilizing the placebo effect to significantly raise your blood testosterone levels.
Try this meditation:
https://www.youtube.com/embed/dG5cZzbKvW0Make sure to wear stereo headphones with separate left and right channels, in order for the entrancing binaural beat theta waves to transition your brain to theta waves where you're calm and the subconscious mind is receptive.
It’s not all on her, it’s on you too.