Do you care what the opposite sex thinks about you when it is negative?

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NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

I don't think...

but that would depend on what are they actually thinking, and how many...

why would so many be thinking negative stuff about me, lol... maybe I did something very wrong and it is actually deserved lmao, but if it is one or two random girls, then I don't care for it

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

There are a handful of people whose opinions of me that I care about - everyone else, I don't care one way or the other. And even for the people whose opinions I care about, I am ultimately the decision maker of my life, and I accept full responsibility for the consequences.

Pinay_ako · Accepted Answer

Unless you’re none of these people below, idgaf what you think about me!  1. If you’re my family  2. If you’re paying my bills 3. If you’re married/in a relationship/fcking me.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

I don't care whether it's positive or negative...

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

After getting into a few relationships I started to realize that while I can always work on myself and improve as a person, I have made a bunch of women very happy. Both in and out of bed. If someone tries to make me feel insecure, I just remember that I am my own harshest critic already, nobody has a right to be mad at you for trying your best and its against my code of conduct to take haters seriously.

Ill_made_Knight · Answer

All depends. Might want to pay attention if it's an opinion you've heard more than a few times and you are trying to attract a partner or just concerned about your image / reputation in general.
I tend to just let it rip anymore. I'm at the point where it would be nice to find a partner in crime, but it's gonna happen sort of organically if it does...

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Women and children's opinions are not worthy of any merit. Too emotional, often retarded, and usually just selfish af. That's just my opinion derived from my lived experience... and anyone 'offended' by that is EXACTLY why I have such an opinion.

Googlemyahoo · Answer

When you get married you’ll quickly learn not to care because you’ll hear about it all the time 👍

You’ll require these two phrases.

1. Ok I will next week

2. Oh you did? I didn’t hear you ask.

That will help you survive. That and never sit down and relax in view of your wife. This makes them turn feral.

voggetta · Answer

Yes. I find the idea of not caring what others think to be kind of juvenile. We're a social species and getting along should be our ultimate goal with each other. Even if it doesn't work or is sometimes impossible being pessimistic or apathetic about it is reactive not proactive.

93_n_on · Answer

Not if it's dumb or petty. Nobody is perfect but more often then not it won't even be something negative it'll be something they personally don't like. I've heard stupid s**t like me liking football and soccer or liking anime and gaming being an issue. Also me never smoking drinking or using drugs has come up. These reason aren't even negative they personally just don't like them which is why I disregard them. Plus there have been so many lies said about me its crazy

Heolurt · Answer

Hearing the how ugly and unwanted and unloved I am from females my entire life and it still happens pretty daily has shaped my entire perspective of myself, like if all you hear is how ugly your face is and not one person has ever said the opposite, you tend to believe the general consensus. So no, I no longer care what females think about me because I've heard it my whole life.

RosieMelts · Answer

I stopped giving a fuck when I saw how much shxt they have.  Project shxt? Sure but I’m not gonna catch it- I throw it right back 😂  they want a shxt fight or a food fight- they decide 👐

20yearsolder · Answer

I could care less what the opposite sex thinks of me. I am who I am and I'm not going to change for anybody. Honestly I don't care what anybody thinks of me. Male or female

Alacazam · Answer

Depends on whether I can do anything about it or not. If he's commenting on my boobs, well that is just how they are, sorry. Pay for an upgrade or shut your mouth haha. If he says my hair looks frizzy today, ok, I'll do a better job tomorrow.

It also depends on whether this person is worth their opinion. I can think of a few men I've known that could think I look like a foot covered in shiite and I wouldn't care. The ones that matter though... they matter.

CubsterShura · Answer

Nah, usually guys who tend to have negative feelings about me are not my type anyway. They are doing me a favor by keeping themselves away from me.

dustybiker · Answer

No. I’m surrounded by people who love me and I’m happy. I don’t mess with people unless bullying others. They are usually the only haters. I couldn’t care less what bullies think of me.

NewsReader · Answer

I would be curious to hear about it. Just to get some feedback. Would it hurt me? I doubt it.

Gent207-2 · Answer

Words hurt regardless of who says them. However the value of a message is only determined by the one who recieve it.

242plusInfinity · Answer

No.. People don't even think for themselves in the first place. Thoughts are a dime a dozen and usually trash.

genericname85 · Answer

well depends on the situation. if it's an opinion or conviction of mine, i don't. if i somehow came across wrong or did something wrong without knowing, i would care.

Beardedman1996 · Answer

Yeah, men sometimes take it as basically constructive criticism, which leads them down the path to be “better” but most of the time just deteriorates their mental health in the hopes that they become what it takes to feel wanted

ZS007 · Answer

I care in general cause I get influenced easily

Bolty44 · Answer

We care and try to improve and be cool but if its too far a good bye is coming

SushiSxnpai · Answer

I care about what most people think about me, no matter what gender. I hate being judged and I’m under constant fear of that.

Paige90 · Answer

Yes, because maybe I need to improve or change something.

chocomilk99 · Answer

If they fail to give me a gud reason... which they fail most of the tym.. then no idc

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Of course I care. Especially if what they think is not accurate.

collie22 · Answer

i don't care when someone thinks badly of me, that happens. people think what they want. i don't make time for that

TroyDT · Answer

Not particularly. Four billion women on the planet. I'm not stressing about what one or a few think.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Only when relevant to me. Like if it's someone I'm into.

Anonymous · Answer

Of course! But only if it's a HOT member of the opposite sex. If she's not hot I don't particularly care. Then it only matters insofar as she talks to people whose opinion I do care about.

Anonymous · Answer

Not really. I know that most women either hate men or feel indifferent towards them.

Yourservicemam · Answer

Yes -I really want to know  What is about me -? Men don’t always have a Answer right away  Because we Process stuff…

convo_king89 · Answer

If it’s sexual related like being called a perv it’s not fun.

simplyshredded · Answer

No, because I know they are mirin my aesthetics.

Coolhand669 · Answer

Yes because I want to know why it is negative so I can improve on it and change It

Jltakk · Answer

I care about what anyone thinks of me in general. I don't care if anyone finds me attractive but I don't want to step on anyone's toes

Anonymous · Answer

It’s good to care enough to make your image appear better overall, but not enough to alter your personality or mood.

Hanrej · Answer

Yes, only a complete narcissist wouldn't take critique.

BloodCursedDeviant · Answer

Not really no. If she’s not my family or a lover then I don’t give a shit what a woman thinks of me.

fred_durst · Answer

not anymore , bcos i am used to it , now it is like , whatever floats your boat

Hotboy_booblover · Answer

No.. I don't care.. I stopped wondering what people think about me when I came to know how less they think about me..🤣

panamared1 · Answer

yes, but then it depends on who's opinion it is

notyour_baby · Answer

No way!!! If i don’t care about them i do not care what they think about me.

Blackcosmo · Answer

If it's not true then yes I care.

crossdressingrihno · Answer

Only if I care About them

Andres77 · Answer

Depends on the context

Ryan1979 · Answer

No I don't care what they think

Exterminatore · Answer

I pretty much don’t care what anyone thinks of me.

katestar · Answer

Guys are jerks. Guys lost. Girls rules.

Anonymous · Answer

No, I ignore men 95% of the time.

Zolly99999 · Answer

Depends on my mood.. 🤔

Iron_Man · Answer

I care what anybody thinks about me

maximumpower · Answer

Nope. Could care less what they think.

Jouth · Answer

i dont care about people thinks

Henry37 · Answer

Hey how are you doing

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Ofcourse

Juxtapose · Answer

Noooope!

baserunner611 · Answer

Who is it come from

eagle1951 · Answer

nope

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