I feel inherently broken and I cannot be loved… any advice…?

[Anonymous]

Or any love stories out there that would give me some hope cause I have fucking none I’m not even lying…sorry for the depressing post

[ohsheeT]

I have 5 billion love stories and I'm going to tell you one right now it's about this girl this lady who felt that she could not be loved and when she felt this she projected this everywhere she went because that's what she felt Within and when you fill it within you projected you radiate it out of your body to every person that passes by you it's just like having a smile if you have a beautiful smile and you're happy and you walk by people your smile your energy touches them and they become it and they become happy and they smile it's the same thing with being broken if you feel broken then you are broken if you want to be broken then you are broken if you want to be loved you have to love yourself first you have to smile to push it out there into the universe you have to become what you want to become it doesn't just happen you have to make it happen if you're depressed and angry all the time you got wrinkles all over your face your bitchy Mony and you're never happy but if you happy you love yourself if you like yourself and you're being one with yourself you project that out there and that's who you are that's who you become so now I want to change my love story to this beautiful woman who looks in the mirror and she likes herself and she says I'm not dating anybody right now but I want it I'm a good person I'm smart I'm sexy I'm hot and I'm going to project that out to everybody in this universe and when guys walk by you and you have a smile on your face your beautiful smile you know and then they want to start up a conversation with you and then they start to look deep into your eyes and they can feel your beautiful heart they can feel what type of beautiful person you are how confident you are with inside yourself they watch you with other people and how much you care about them how much you care about yourself how happy go lucky you are and that's a very good person to be around so then they will ask you for a date you go out of date and you laugh and you have fun and you connect with their energy because your energy is alive and happening that's who you truly are inside

Every single one of us when we are born we are given a gift and that gift is choice each and every single day we get to choose who we want to be by the things that we say and that we do


So every morning when you wake up and you want to be happy you want to be sexy you want to be hot you want somebody to make love to you you want somebody to touch you you want somebody to be there for you that's who you have to become that's your choice and the choices that you make that's who you will become if you want to be broken you're going to be broken if you can't be loved then you can't be loved that's your choice you have to love yourself first you have to go through the steps

I mean please don't take this wrong but you're the type of person that I would love to find and I would love to just melt to take you home take you some play any place and show you how precious you are how beautiful you are how sexy you are I would fuck your brains out so you would feel something so hot so intense that you would want it again it's the same with loving yourself it's the same with getting anything in this world that you want you have to become one with it you have to experience it to understand it quit experiencing broken hearted quit experience I cannot be loved because you can be that's your choice if you don't want to be but make the other choice try that for a while see how that works for you if you allow yourself to become it you will become it and you will see a difference you will make a difference your happiness only depends on you nobody in this world is going to make you happy except for you that's the start of it all then somebody that's happy with themselves they like what they feel like when both happiness is there together

[Asker]

That is such an amazing answer I will keep reading it again and again thank you so much, you have radiated love 😊

[ohsheeT]

Or Energy , When you feel another's energy a lot of things happen can you do it or feel it

[ohsheeT]

Min and by the way thank you for saying that I'm glad that you could somewhat understand it or you can understand it I think that's cool

[Guy13]

Oh my, what happened ⁉️ Have you had opportunity to share your feelings with family, friends, pastor, or counselor. I hate that feeling and when I get it I either work more or go to gym more etc…I increase my busyness. Have you tried that ⁉️

[Asker]

Some shit happened but tbh that feeling has been with me forever I just ignore it normally. I need to build a business 😂 good luck with yours 😘

[Guy13]

I hear you. Something you can just throw yourself into. That’s how I got started. Good luck in all your endeavors too 😊

[EnglishEuropean]

I recommend therapy. Suffice to say your thought distortions need not be the last word.

[Jay3344]

I didn’t have love for like 15 years and then it kind of came out of nowhere and hit me. So sometimes it can take a while.

[Danny_dan92]

Don’t be. Love is bs