Is looking at apartment listings a bad sign?

[Cupcakegirl93]

Me and my boyfriend have been arguing more frequently lately. And it‘s upsetting because I always get most upset about how he argues. He tends to deflect and gaslight which I hate. And lately I’ve been finding myself fantasizing about being single and looking at apartment listings. How serious should I take this?

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Dude, listen to your instincts.

Break up with him. Gaslighting is a huge, blaring, dangerous red flag. The next step is abuse.

Gtfo. Seriously, watch out.

[Anonymous]

sometimes its natural to want to move on but its not entirely clear what you want at this point