Whats the safest way to keep body hair initially during a relationship?

When meeting a girl for the first time for intimacy what's the safest and best way to keep the body hair as a man especially in the case he is very hairy bodied?

Ask her straight forward how she would like it on chest, legs and thighs
Lightly trim legs , thighs and torso as a safe bet
Shave 🪒 it all as a safe bet. That is what most prefer
Shave/closel trim torso... leave legs, thigh and arms natural
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Whats the safest way to keep body hair initially during a relationship?
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