What would you do if your partner said they didn’t give you their whole heart?

[Anonymous]

Do you think your partner still love you or not? Or what?

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Makes sense to me.
My heart is big enough to love many people, places, and things.

Someone whose entire heart/identity/personality are defined by their relationship disgust me. It's why I went no contact with my parents - they're unable to exist as independent people. It ruined both of them, and resulted in my father nearly losing all contact with his family - he had to fight (and throw me under the bus to get enough time to sneak away from my mother) to even have the right to attend family functions.

It's not healthy in my opinion to only have your heart invested in your partner. You should love yourself, your life, and your experiences - and then share those and your love with your partner.

I won't date someone who can't love and care for themselves. It's a major red flag.

[katestar]

I agree with you

[Anonymous]

I'd reply him like this:

"And who said I ever wanted your heart?"

Or

"Why would I want a heart? xD"

Consequently dumping his dumb ass.

I wouldn't want to be the only one invested in a relationship.

[ohsheeT]

To be honest with you it's telling you two different things it's telling you that they're not sure of the relationship and maybe in a way it's a form of manipulation wanted you to give more to him I would tell you right now that the relationships not going to last if you can't give all himself to you there's a reason for it and it's not a good reason probably

[exitseven]

I went with somebody who I never felt that she was not really as invested in the relationship as I was. I tried to ignore this but finally I decided that she would never change and I deserved better. I called her on the phone and broke up with her. She did not seem too broken up.

[katestar]

My guy friend didn't return my feelings when I told him.

[exitseven]

@katestar sorry kid It's not easy.

[katestar]

I agree with you

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[SomewhereElse]

I would ask for the reason why that's the case before deciding on any further action.

[FallonSamuels]

That’s concerning. Why are they with you if they aren’t giving you their all?

[chocomilk99]

Cuz they need some of it to pump the blood n stay alive

[dustybiker]

They don’t sound worthy of your time.

[Anonymous]

Id think its time to question why I am in that relationship.

[dophix]

That's concerning, leave him/her now

[In_Trance]

maybe you haven't earned it yet

[Anonymous]

Downgrade their credit rating.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

I would hope it meant what I think it means

[Blackcupcake]

I would leave

[44of69years]

Leave them

[katestar]

I've been there. So.

[Clyde_123]

Leave him.