Is it okay that my partner follows cam girls on IG?

[Anonymous]

He mostly follow cam girls aside from normal accounts. I tried not to be bothered by it 'cause in the first place he already followed them even before we entered the relationship. He is somewhat active on a Discord server of a certain cam girl. He said, mainly because the woman is nice and she deserves to be treated better because the other people there are not active and only think of her as sexual past time. I am just curious about the blurred lines is this is okay or not.

[kylee2437]

Whether it’s okay or not is up to you personally, but I would not be okay if I had a boyfriend that followed cam girls on social media because it shows that he spends a significant amount of time on cam girls behind your back. Who knows if he’s spending money on them and such. I think porn is fine but once it gets to cam girls, it sounds like an addiction

[Asker]

Yup, he doesn't pay them but yeah, at first I am bothered by it

[kylee2437]

@asker if you are bothered with it, then it’s something that needs to be addressed

[sunflower00]

I would be bothered by that, especially the discord thing too. It’s pretty disrespectful to you in my opinion

[Wise4myage]

He should have the common sense to stop that once you both entered into a relationship.

[Vanidal]

Uh, he's like the guy version of an obsessed fangirl.