I don't like my boyfriend's sister. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

okay. so my boyfriend and I are 6 years in a relationship and he got a younger sister, 11 years gap. He's 23, I'm 22, and she's 12. I used to like her years before, she's sweet and loving to me. However, right now she has grown to be a teen and she's posting all that sexy pics of her in her fb story, and my boyfriend saw it all the time. She posts tiktok videos with her stomach to her turso are seen and her shorts are open, she post more vids of twerking. And my boyfriend sees all this. I'm worried because my boyfriend might find it attractive, I'm so worried. Also, their house is small so she sleeps next to him sometimes, he even send me pic of her sleeping. The room is really really small. They're cramped there. I'm overthinking about incest things. She's really so girly and sexy at the age of 12, really. I asked him one time where she sleeps and he said she's sleeping next to their mother but their mother are not always there (sometimes she sleeps at their other house far away) . Oh, they have a gay brother too. A middle child brother. He's not very close to them, unlike my boyfriend and her sis. He also got his own room meanwhile my boyfriend and his sis share the same room, but at that room, got a micro room that's where he sleeps and his sister sleeps outside of that micro room. Anyways, what's more, he's always bringing her to our dates. It's really annoying af. One time I told my boyfriend it should strictly be just the two of us in my home but he brought his sister. I was so furious, I didn't bless them with my presence and told them to go away back home. Also, another time, she used my jacket without permission and he just let it be. I'm so fucking sick of her sister, as well as his family (it's another story). What should I do? I really hate her sister. I unfriended her on my boyfriend's fb but they eventually became fb friends once again. I can't block her as she's his sister. I can't think of ways to get rid of her as they are siblings. Whaaat do i do

[avaisfree]

That sucks that they're so poor she can't have her own space. It sounds difficult for everyone.

[WhitneySnow]

That’s weird that they share a room when she’s a tween and he’s 22

[Asker]

They are really poor, can't even buy a phone for his father and middle sibling. They live in the slums too

[WhitneySnow]

They should still give her her own room and have the boys bunk together. But yeah, something in your story gave me a creepy vibe about your boyfriend and his sister.

[Asker]

I told him it should have been her sister who had the room instead of his brother but he said her sister is scared to be alone, she puts salt in every corners of the house and put garlic lmao I don't know what to think

[WhitneySnow]

Weird lol

[Guy13]

You better start liking her…. They are close

[Guy13]

Do you have siblings?

[Asker]

I'm trying to.. but everytime I see her posting sexy tiktoks and dances, it's really making me angry

[Asker]

Yes i have a sibling. It's a she and we're 7 years gap, but we're not THAT close, we got boundaries and she doesn't borrow my phone coz I'll be furious although if she sees my fon she takes selfies. We have a love-hate relationship (my sister)

[Guy13]

Rock and a Hard place for sure. She may be Testing and Protecting. You know how that is...

[Asker]

can't understand. What?

Hey i see u everywhere

[Guy13]

"we're just social" ;-) I mean... I bust some of my my sister's boys balls growing up. The one she married likes me NOW... not so much before-during dating.
It will all probably work out.

[Asker]

Ohhh right maybe that's what's gonna happen to us too.. thanks for the insight

[In_Trance]

Stay away from your boyfriend's sister.

[Asker]

Right? Just a few months ago (June) i expressed how i liked her and i told her to tell me her problems especially dating as she's got a humored boyfriend and everyone in their family is so angry so i told her to tell me if she needed someone. THAT WAS 3 MONTHS AGO

Now I can't stand her. Everytime I see her pictures, it annoys me. She even borrowed my boyfriend's new phone (hours old) and took selfies. My boyfriend don't delete pictures, even if it's a screenshot, so i got to see all her selfies and it's fcking annoying. She's acting all cute & sexy uggh

[Anonymous]

You sound immature. Grow the F up already.

[Asker]

Whyyy

[Opinion Owner]

you do things on his accounts.
and you don't seem to understand the concept of being broke.
you can ask your boyfriend if he has sex with his sister if you want to make a point.

[Opinion Owner]

about my 2nd point when they are crammed in a tiny space and have no choice but to sleep on the same mattress.

[Asker]

Of course he'd say no. I told him he should prioritize his sister and give her the micro room and he said, "what is she? A Lucky girl? No way!" . So I can't ask him that question if he had done those things

[Asker]

So what do you mean? Do you think they did not do anything bad?

[Opinion Owner]

I do not know what goes on behind their doors any more than you do. But at the same time i am not faulting you for feeling the way you feel.

[Asker]

Oh well it is what it is

[Anonymous]

You're crazy asf...

[Asker]

Wdymm

[Opinion Owner]

Girl they are brother and sister..
Who the hell on earth fuck her sister.. ?

[Asker]

There really is! I have a neighbor in my province who got his younger sister pregnant, he's 17 & she's 13. The brother banished from shame and the sister is taking care of their child. They're the talk of our town. That's province

I live in the city

[Asker]

Do u have a sibling?

[Opinion Owner]

This is really crazy & shock to know...

[Asker]

I know. That is why I'm really overthinking...

[Opinion Owner]

Than I'm sure they had sex...
But wtf why he bring his sister at your date?

[Asker]

Wtf why u sure? You're making me overthink more😣

That was one time, they went to their father's workplace to borrow motorcycle. I told him to come over after and only him, I specifically told him to drop his sis off their house (we live near, about 10 mins walk) . I told him i would get angry if he will bring his sis with him coz I will travel that day & i wanna have him all to myself that time. So what happened is he brought his sister, with foods and milktea for us - they were planning to eat with me. I just felt so disrespected as I told him clearly I don't want her to come. So I didn't appear in front of them and told them to go away back home. They left the foods but It's not enough, he didn't do as promised

[Opinion Owner]

Oh my girl you're in very dangerous situation...

R u serious about this relationship?

[Asker]

Why dangerous?

Yes serious about him. I really love him. But I don't like his family , so I was thinking of breaking up but I thought to myself, it's him I'm in relationship with so I didn't break up. But we're very serious, he's also serious about me. He comes to my home everyday, even on a busy day. He buys me things even if he doesn't have enough money. He buys me food sometimes

But i really can't stand his sister nor his family

[Opinion Owner]

Ugh so much drama

[Asker]

that's just what it is

[Opinion Owner]

God bless you girl 😂

[Asker]

Thanks tho 😖 you too

[Opinion Owner]

Aw girl smile

[Asker]

Boy how could i

[Opinion Owner]

Why you couldn't?
I'm sure your smile is more important than any stress. 😊

[Asker]

I'll keep that in mind thank you so much for making me feel better tonight

[Opinion Owner]

No worries... always here to help you ma'am. 😊

[Missgingles]

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