I'm male 25 y/o fearful avoidant. Is there a hope for me for any sort of relationship?

[Anonymous]

[Aerolyn]

Probably not tbh.

I feel like the reailty is no one has the patience to do deal with someone that got issues like that.

I would consider myself fearful and avoidant as well, I've been losing a lot of friends due to it.

I'm pretty much just down to one at this point.

With that being said even if you were to make new bonds of any kind, they wouldn't last due to you being fearful and avoidant.

A bond can't grow when you're like that

[Asker]

Thank you for your honest opinion

[LazerBean]

I mean there's a chance that you'll find someone who will put up for you for a while, or maybe even a long time. But unless you do something about those problems there's very little chance that you'll ever be able to be in a happy, successful, and long-term relationship without any turmoil with someone.

[Asker]

There was a girl that was madly in love in me but our relationship did not even lasted one week beacuse of my insecurities.

[LazerBean]

I believe it.

[Sandeeppingping]

Nope it's over

[Asker]

Time for a good ol' chair and rope combo I guess

[Sandeeppingping]

Yep😂😂😂but no seriously bro I was like that (Yes I've read about attachment styles before broza) , my advice probably sounds obvious or far easier said than done, but act the opposite of what you feel and according to how you know you should act...

[Jamie05rhs]

Not unless you find a good woman.

[Asker]

I doubt it.

[Jamie05rhs]

I also doubt it. But don't give up hope!! Improbable does not equal impossible.

[slatyb]

Therapy

[Asker]

No. I refuse

[slatyb]

Then there's no hope.