What should I do my boyfriend mean to me because I accused him cheating?

[Anonymous]

We had a big argument and I thought we already solved the problems and forgive each others but today he's so mean and said "that's my expression of love" in joking way but I feel like he holds a grudge and he said "lets make a deal if you stop accused me cheating I will stop being so mean and I still love you" I feel uncomfortable so we have argument again and asked what should I do? He said "don't be so dramatic" don't know what to do

[AllGoodNamesRGone]

Love means to have the worst argument with yr significant other and realising you'd rather have that argument with them than not have them in your life., Just make sure you argue for the better. That way, you'll get to address each other's concern well.

[slatyb]

Sounds like a match made in heaven. Why did you accuse him of cheating? Has he been cheating?

What to do? Find a more compatible partner. You don't trust him. Why are you still there?

[petitedollbabee]

Why did you accuse him of cheating in the first place? I’d be pissed if my partner accused me of cheating out of the blue.

[Asker]

I see, I think that's the reason why he's changed and mean

[Blackcupcake]

you shouldn’t have accused him for cheating… did you explain that it was a mistake and apologised? if not then you should

[Asker]

Yes but he still mad bcs he's changed and mean to me

[Blackcupcake]

give him time. if he doesn’t get over it then have a serious talk about it. if that doesn’t help then I guess it’s time for you two to go your separate ways

[Asker]

He replied me few hours ago, he said he doesn't like it when I accused him cheating that could be the point where we could break up some day, and he said he apologized he shouldn't be mean

[AndrésC64]

How long ago was the argument and what was it about? You can't expect him to immediately get over a serious blowout right away. Especially depending on what it was about.

[AndrésC64]

Oops. Disregard my questions. How long ago was this? Because if you accused me of cheating I'd be darn pissed about it to be honest with you. I'm not sure if I could continue with the relationship. And honestly, if you don't trust him enough that he wouldn't cheat on you, then you probably shouldn't be in the relationship in the first place.

[Asker]

Yeah now I understand why he is so mean, but we talked few hours ago

[In_Trance]

you're too old for this crap.

[Anonymous]

Did you apologize for accusing him of cheating?

[Asker]

I did but looks like he still mad at me bcs he's so mean all of sudden and it makes me sad

[Opinion Owner]

Why did you delete my comment?

Anyway, did you have a valid reason to accuse him? Accusing someone of cheating, when they have done nothing to make you think they that they can't be trusted can hurt. Just give him some time.

[Asker]

Did I? Oh I don't know I'm so sorry.. He replied me "he said he doesn't like it when I accused him cheating that could be the point where we could break up some day, but I shoukdnt be mean to you I'm sorry"

[Opinion Owner]

It's ok. I was just curious, lol.

Sounds like he's willing to forgive and give you a second chance but he's letting you know that you won't get another one. I think you should take that seriously.

[Asker]

Yeah, you right, I'm so nervous I would make same mistake huhu

[Opinion Owner]

Don't let your insecurities sabotage your relationship.

[Asker]

Ok yeah yeah you right, omg thank you so muchhhhh, thanks for the advice

[Opinion Owner]

No problem. Good luck with everything.

[Asker]

Thank youuu