I think my boyyfriend is cheating on me with my step sister part 1?

[Louisiana1989]

Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now its never been a strong relationship and he has cheated a few times before. So I wouldn't be surprised if he were doing it again.. the problem I'm having is who I think he is cheating with. Me and my step sister have known each other almost our how life we are just alike we even look alike weird I know. And I know that she has messed around with another one of our sisters ex es before so I know she is capable of doing it again. Now like I said we are very close and my boyfriend is always with me so it's usually the three of us and lately I've been getting this gut feeling that they are messing around behind my back.

[Beatrix7]

it is possible always go with your gut i had a gut feeling my ex was cheating and it turned out he was but what i also done because of the feeling was watched him like a hawk look out for body language face words movment actions nerves smile eyes consentrate do not take ure eyes off him if you get the feeling about this my boyfriend treated me good at first i done nothing wrong and i got the gut feeling and i asked him are you cheating and he got nippy and because of to much messages declining phone calls caring his phone everywhere thats how i had to ask him i had the right asking him may have caused the argument but i had the right to ask i was his girlfriend and he just kept getting nasty and annoyed and shouting when i asked him thatsca sign he doesn't want to admut he wrong and done aomething wrong and guilt aswel

[Louisiana1989]

Yes like I don't want to say anything when I see him or them being weird because of how guilty he makes me feel when I ask him a question no matter what that question is so I don't say anything and I question everything I see when I know I really saw it and I know it's his narcissistic ass that is doing all this to me like you said he is never mean to me in an ugly way he is mean to me in a nice way. If that makes any sense

[Beatrix7]

well my ex was terrible mean to me in both nice and bad way but mostly badi just didn't let him get away with anything but u gotta stand up for yourself and say somethi g or your never going to be happy sitting guessing in your head that wi knock you coo koo because of the stress i wen throygh with my ex i ended up so stressed that a just started going through the change of life at 33 now youv'e gotta ask him hunni its not right stand up with your head high never never let a guy take the piss or he will think your to soft and do what ever he want to you nd u will just put up wuth it i mean this is ure boyfriend a nd ure stepsister u gotta get involved dont let him walk all over you ure being to week hunni put your foot down ure use both ure foot for there heads cause that sounds discusting what they are doing stand up nd get him told i know u love him but if he's doing this he obv doesn't love you as much as he says just because u love him doesn't mean u should back up from speaking to him u can't just sit there and watch them be weird it just upsetting u think of how your life will turn out if u dont do the wise thing and talk pm me if u want some more advice hunni a can try my best to help av been through the lot sweety

[Louisiana1989]

I tried to message you but it wasn't letting me so if you want you can message me

[Beatrix7]

i pm you tgere hunni

[Cynicaldreamer]

"... its never been a strong relationship and he has cheated a few times before."

Then why the hell are you still with him? I'm sorry, but I would have left him the first time he cheated. If someone cares for you, they DON'T cheat!
And now you have a feeling something is off? It probably is...

Go with your gut and leave him. Otherwise you'll just get hurt again.

[Wise4myage]

Given her past history, your gut feeling is probably correct.

[Wise4myage]

But why stay with this guy, when he's cheated on you before?

[Louisiana1989]

I stay because I don't have any where else to go and I work and I'm trying to save to get out is just messed up the hole situation I know deep down that they are I'm just not ready to except it I guess

[Wise4myage]

Makes sense, thanks for the reply.

[Louisiana1989]

Thanks for being honest

[FckY0u998]

what if he isn't and you're wrong

[Louisiana1989]

Trust me i have thought about the a lot but I also know me and before I got with him if I had a gut feeling about something it was always right now you tell me if this were you and you got with some I've and all of a sudden your gut was always wrong what would be your conclusion for it because mine is that my gut is right and he is just very good at the stuff he does and though I've caught him I still stayed because I had to and that just showed him that he could do whatever he wants and I'm not guns so anything about it or so he thinks.

[mw614]

I think he is playingyou

[MrTaboo]

Yeah! Threesome!