My brothers girlfriend is cheating should I tell?

[Hopelessgirl92]

Both she and my bro are 25 and have been together for just over 9 years. I received an e-mail from someone who has sent me evidence that she has been cheating on him for the past 5 years every other day with his BFF. I talked with her about it and She convinced me not say anything. I've been knowing about this since it first happened in 2011 up to this current day its stl going on Most of the time it happens it when he's out of town town or at work. I know that she cheated on him last night and today. I have NO idea how to handle this. Should I say anything to my brother or just let it work itself out and he will figure it out soon enough?

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UPDATE: My bff and my brothers girlfriend are at my house now

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Hi Everyone!!
This evidence has been in my possesion for over 4 years now and I haven't told until this point and I have made up my mind not to tell. If these things come out and I am asked I will give what I know, but will not be the one who brings it out. The only reason I have thought of telling is because people have said that he "deserves to know". I think he is better off not knowing, will save him a lot of hurt now. I truly believe that in the end people's true col

[fhziljio]

You are a fucking terrible sister!
With whom lies your loyalty?

What happens, if she gets pregnant form the other guy?
Will you risk him taking care of the kid, until a medical emergency forces the truth to reveal itself, because he can't donate blood or and organ?
He will feel great then of course and the time he wasted on her is no problem at all, you are young at least five times in your life, he can start over easily.

What, if she gets pregnant and leaves him for his best friend?

Seriously on this platform there are communists, socialists, feminists
and fat acceptance people. I despise all the of them with a passion.
BUT YOU actually made me mad for gods sake. FUCK YOU!
Your brother already wasted 5 years of his life on his cheating cunt girfriend.

[Hopelessgirl92]

How did I make you maf

[Hopelessgirl92]

*Mad*

[HGG3805]

If it was anyone other than your brother I would say stay out of it. But it's your brother. Blood is thicker than friendship.

I would be inclined to tell her that she needs to tell your brother or you are going to.

Are you sure he doesn't know this?

[Hopelessgirl92]

I'M POSITIVE. But she's my bff. Her and my brothers friend are having sex right now. I'm at her house waiting in the living roo

[HGG3805]

I would tell her you are going to tell your brother cause this is not right. But since she is your friend you are going to give her ONE chance to do it herself. Your brother would be pissed at you when he finds out you knew and did not tell him. If it was anyone else I'd say stay out of it. Blood, you know.

[HGG3805]

This has been going on for at least six years. You are at your BFF house and she is having sex with your brother's friend, and they know you are waiting in another room? Wow. that takes some nerve. Maybe you ought to talk to her about her intentions with your brother.

[Hopelessgirl92]

This evidence has been in my possesion for over 4 years now and I haven't told until this point and I have made up my mind not to tell. If these things come out and I am asked I will give what I know, but will not be the one who brings it out. The only reason I have thought of telling is because people have said that he "deserves to know". I think he is better off not knowing, will save him a lot of hurt now. I truly believe that in the end people's true colors will show through.

[goddess87]

Since they started at 16 the chances of the relationship ever working out forever were slim to begin with. Who is your loyalty with? Your brother or her? I think since it has been going on so long and you agreed to stop years ago that you should tell him. This is not just a young lapse of judgement, but instead is an ongoing thing. She clearly has no intention of stopping. You sat back for awhile and waited for him to find out, he hasn't and might not ever. At this point you should definitely tell him or tell your brother something is going on there and take him over there to see for himself

[Hopelessgirl92]

The three of us are shopping right now TBH lol

[Hopelessgirl92]

This evidence has been in my possesion for over 4 years now and I haven't told until this point and I have made up my mind not to tell. If these things come out and I am asked I will give what I know, but will not be the one who brings it out. The only reason I have thought of telling is because people have said that he "deserves to know". I think he is better off not knowing, will save him a lot of hurt now. I truly believe that in the end people's true colors will show through.

[Aalila]

Tell your brother friends come and go in sure if you were in his situation you would be heartbroken if your brother knew you boyfriend was cheating on you and said nothing she isn't a good friend and honestly you shouldn't let her manipulate you go tell your brother now not tmr not in a minute 1 hr go tell him now when things happen in life she will not always be there but your blood your family will it doesn't matter if you say oh but she's my friend cut it go tell your brother it's better he knows then finds out you knew all this time and said nothing

[Hopelessgirl92]

I slept with his friend too

[Hopelessgirl92]

This evidence has been in my possesion for over 4 years now and I haven't told until this point and I have made up my mind not to tell. If these things come out and I am asked I will give what I know, but will not be the one who brings it out. The only reason I have thought of telling is because people have said that he "deserves to know". I think he is better off not knowing, will save him a lot of hurt now. I truly believe that in the end people's true colors will show through.

[Aalila]

Well if you think that's the right choice 🤔
But honestly if i was him i would be so hurt when the truth came out and my sibling knew about it for 4 years and never said a word trust would be completely gone and I would never contact my sibling ever again they would be dead to me and if i had kids they would never know about my sibling unless they came in contact with them on social media I'll explain what they did and tell them to block and delete

[Fitness-Fanatic]

Tell him. He should know that he's wasting his life with a girl who's betraying him

If my brother's girlfriend cheated on him, I'd tell him. Regardless of how much she begged and pleaded for me not to. My loyalties are to my brother , not to his girlfriend. If i withheld the info from him , then I'd be guilty of betraying him too. My conscience wouldn't allow me to keep his girlfriend's betrayal from him

He should know , then he can make a conscientious decision on what do do about it based on the truth.

[Hopelessgirl92]

I've never been te type to meddle in his affairs. Should I tell our mom?

[Hopelessgirl92]

This evidence has been in my possesion for over 4 years now and I haven't told until this point and I have made up my mind not to tell. If these things come out and I am asked I will give what I know, but will not be the one who brings it out. The only reason I have thought of telling is because people have said that he "deserves to know". I think he is better off not knowing, will save him a lot of hurt now. I truly believe that in the end people's true colors will show through.

[samhradh_leannan]

He deserves to know. I think you should have told him as soon as you found out. How will he feel if he knew you were aware of this and didn't tell him?

You could give his girlfriend the chance to come clean on her own, but if she doesn't, do it for her.

[5x9BOB]

There's no reason on this Earth for anyone to be committed to someone and yet show the disrespect and total selfishness by cheating. Not only is it deception and lies and lack of respect lack of honor in my opinion. Tell your brother. You wouldn't want your brother to leave you hanging if someone was cheating on you and he knew it. Now good luck on how you going to break it to him.

[kayjay87]

I don't know if this is a joke or not? That's your bro, your supposed to look out for one another.

What is wrong with you?

Worse thing is you went behind your bros back spoke to her she promised not to do it again and he is non the wiser. Once a cheater always a cheater and you knowingly have done this to him.

If you were my sister I don't think I could ever look you in the eyes. Shame on you! You should have given all this Intel and let him decide her fate. Smh

[kayjay87]

First time I've come across someone who actually does resemble their name.

[Hopelessgirl92]

His friend and her are at the mall now lol

[kayjay87]

Do you understand what's happening? If your bro found out someone was cheating on you and didn't tell you how would that make you feel? Or if it happened with your mum and dad?

This is the equivalent of something happening on Jerry Springer show. I'm lost for words.

You don't even have a morale compass ground. Smh.

[kayjay87]

You do understand that your bro deserves a woman who is honest and loves him for who he is. He's been played and you know. You are a heartless person shame on you! Only because the majority of people have commented you are only now considering. Disgusting sister. I'm ashamed of you. I feel sorry for your brother, if he marries that girl, he will be embarrassed if they get divorced.

You are an incredibly selfish woman. Shame on you!

[WarsanN]

I feel like this is fake...
If it isn't. You're not a good sister letting her do this and covering for her the past 6 years...
Bff or not. This is not cool.

[Hopelessgirl92]

No it's real. Our mom said stay out of it.

[Daynada]

Yeah but sometimes moms are wrong, especially when they’re fucking in the next room... tell him

[kenjaminSlutton716]

Tell you asshole i would have long ago that's your blood

[Hopelessgirl92]

They're still doing the nasty. I'm at her house with his friend. I can hear them lol

[kenjaminSlutton716]

So your sitting there listening to your brothers friend fuck his fiance?

[kenjaminSlutton716]

Your weird lmfao

[Hopelessgirl92]

I recorded it.

[kenjaminSlutton716]

Cool show your brother already

[Gigabyte]

Send it to him

[kenjaminSlutton716]

Your a troll lmao

[Hopelessgirl92]

This evidence has been in my possesion for over 4 years now and I haven't told until this point and I have made up my mind not to tell. If these things come out and I am asked I will give what I know, but will not be the one who brings it out. The only reason I have thought of telling is because people have said that he "deserves to know". I think he is better off not knowing, will save him a lot of hurt now. I truly believe that in the end people's true colors will show through.

[madgoat]

If you've known about it from the start, you are complicit and it won't go well for you.
Can you arrange for him to find out without anyone knowing you arranged it?

[Hopelessgirl92]

Nope

[Viperspeedjet]

TELL YOUR BROTHER !! he deserves to know.
You are horrible for keeping it from him. Cheating is wrong.
It doesn't matter how close you are to her.
What if you were madly in love with someone and your brother knew he was cheating but didn't tell you because they were mates. Ya you'd be pissed.

[Hopelessgirl92]

They are fucking right now

[Gigabyte]

Her and your brother or her and someone else

[Hopelessgirl92]

@Gigabyte her and my brothers friend

[Viperspeedjet]

Awkward

[Hopelessgirl92]

This evidence has been in my possesion for over 4 years now and I haven't told until this point and I have made up my mind not to tell. If these things come out and I am asked I will give what I know, but will not be the one who brings it out. The only reason I have thought of telling is because people have said that he "deserves to know". I think he is better off not knowing, will save him a lot of hurt now. I truly believe that in the end people's true colors will show through.

[Viperspeedjet]

You're a right bitch. If I was your brother and I read that I'd never talk to you again.

[Hopelessgirl92]

Right bitch?

[Viperspeedjet]

You're a bitch

[Hopelessgirl92]

Am not lol

[Anonymous]

First, repost.
Second, you're a piece of shit for not saying anything to him in the first place. You're even helping her doing it.

[Hopelessgirl92]

She's my bff

[Opinion Owner]

... Again, you're a piece of shit for not saying anything.

[Opinion Owner]

Tell your brother, and accept the fact that he will walk out of her and your life forever. Good riddance.

[Hopelessgirl92]

They are fucking right now.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't give a shit. His girlfriend is a whore and you're an enabling asshole. Your brother deserves a better family, better friends and a better girlfriend. Christ.

[Hopelessgirl92]

I've slept with his friend toi😜😜😜😜

[Opinion Owner]

It was obvious you're trolling from the start, considering this post was made three times by different accounts. Get a fucking life.

[Opinion Owner]

However, if you're not trolling: I hope you're raped to death by rabid dogs.

[Barrabus_the_Free]

Tell him! You shouldn't even need to ask this question.

[Hopelessgirl92]

She cheated earlier today

[Barrabus_the_Free]

It somehow doesn't surprise me that you're throwing your own brother under the bus and sticking up for Team Vaj.

This is the kind of thing that shows that women are incapable of loyalty to any man.

[10dsw]

EVERY OTHER DAY?

Holy lol and then you wonder why guys don't want relationships

[Hopelessgirl92]

Hahaha!!

[Gigabyte]

There once was a ho
Who was with your bro
But that wasn't enough
So she fucked other stuff
Now that ho
Really needs to go

[halabalu]

That was cool! Do you have more rhymes?

[Gigabyte]

No to be honest i don't even know where that came from

[halabalu]

Well you should definitely start doing it more often.

[halabalu]

Would you like to chat?

[Gigabyte]

Sure

[halabalu]

Your privacy settings are too high but I understand.

[halabalu]

I pretended to be a girl online and a whole wave of douche bags just started sending me messages. =/

[halabalu]

It got really annoying.

[Gigabyte]

I didn't even know about that hold on

[Gigabyte]

@halabalu there

[AynonOMouse]

If someone cheats they are a no good POS. You should not be friends with someone like that unless you approve of that kind of behavior and are the same.

[Whiterecluse]

She obviously doesn't care about him. He doesn't need her.

[Hopelessgirl92]

His girlfriend is my bff. She and my brothers friend are " together " right now

[Whiterecluse]

Well it doesn't really seem that they care very much about you two. Real friends don't do things like this.

[Tjbigboy]

I’ll be you’re bff

[Svennedude2]

It's your BROTHER. Why did you not tell him from the start? Why did you let his girlfriend have so much influence over you?

[Hopelessgirl92]

She's my bff

[Svennedude2]

Who wants a friend who cheats on your boyfriend for 6 years? How can you live with this? How can she be your best friend? He is your brother. Tell him or you're the worst sister.

[Hopelessgirl92]

She's about to hook up with him today lol. Gotta keep my brother distracted...5 years of this damn!!!

[Timodeum]

Asker, you have fucking issues. TELL HIM YOU FUCK.

[CarpetDenim]

Holy fucking shit you have to be joking. You've been HELPING her cheat on him? What the fuck is wrong with you?

[Hopelessgirl92]

@CarpetDenim TBH I've had sex with my brothers friend a lot too.

[CarpetDenim]

There's no way this isn't a troll.

[Timodeum]

@CarpetDenim Indeed. This post was made by three different accounts on three different occasions.

[Svennedude2]

@Timodeum Yeah, now that you say... probably a troll account.

[TacosRAwesome]

He's your bro. She's a ho. Remember family loyalty first, unless they're criminals.

[Hopelessgirl92]

They just got done having sex now. My brother at work.

[TacosRAwesome]

Just tell her to get the fuck out and never return. Explain to bro after. :)

[Gigabyte]

Exactly my thoughts

[TacosRAwesome]

Oh well, I'd disown you.. Traitor.

[CarpetDenim]

Prepare for him to be pissed and/or hate you for keeping it a secret for so long.

[R00KIE_GUY]

Wow, you're a piece of shit

[Hopelessgirl92]

Why?

[R00KIE_GUY]

You KNEW she has been cheating for years and you didn't tell him? He's your brother and he is supposed to trust you. You've demolished that trust whether he knows it or not. The only way you can salvage this is by telling him ASAP.

[Hopelessgirl92]

She's my bff

[Viperspeedjet]

And he's your brother dipshit

[burpzzzzz]

So what blood is thicker than water. Who needs a friend like that!

[Viperspeedjet]

Friends can be more important than family don't get me wrong but this is just fucked up. She's a shit person if she's cheating on someone. No friendship should defend such bullshit

[Viperspeedjet]

If you really prefer your "bff" then tell him. It's for her own good too. The longer you leave it the worse it's gonna get

[Hopelessgirl92]

@Viperspeedjet they are fucking right now

[R00KIE_GUY]

You are the one of the biggest pieces of shit I have ever met and I hope you get what's coming to you. Go fuck yourself.

[Presto]

wouldn't you want to know? Thats your brother

[Hopelessgirl92]

She's my bff

[Presto]

Your brother is being cheated on.

[Hopelessgirl92]

His friend and girl are together right now

[Presto]

Imagine that. I feel for him.

[Hopelessgirl92]

This evidence has been in my possesion for over 4 years now and I haven't told until this point and I have made up my mind not to tell. If these things come out and I am asked I will give what I know, but will not be the one who brings it out. The only reason I have thought of telling is because people have said that he "deserves to know". I think he is better off not knowing, will save him a lot of hurt now. I truly believe that in the end people's true colors will show through.

[Presto]

He will forgiveve you faster than you think. Bff or not its so dirty. Its been half a decade already. Its not going to be any easier longer it goes on. Not only that but if it come out that you have known about it and didn't say anything to him, i think will be worse.

[TriTree]

That's you're brother... blood... yes you should tell

[Hopelessgirl92]

They are hooking up again already

[TriTree]

The cheaters or your brother and her?

[TriTree]

You need to say something... Its been going on for half a decade.. let your brother be free from that

[Hopelessgirl92]

Her and my brothers friend

[Hopelessgirl92]

It's sort of amusing now lol

[TriTree]

Do as you want I guess.

[KhabibNurgomedov]

its really up to you if you have enough evidence but your gut is never wrong