It frustrates me that I'm 32 years old but I still don't have a boyfriend or family of my own?

[Igooo]

I've never had sex.

[HighValue]

As long as you look decent (not fat, no tattoos or unusual piercings, and no strange hair colors) all you need to do is go on a dating site to get someone. It is literally that easy for women with a 5 + in looks as long as she has a good personality. I'd suggest a serious site like eHarmony, not any free sites that are full of scammers and hook up people.

Just include on your profile that you have no kids from any ex, no contact with any ex, and you are willing to sign a prenuptial agreement. I'd bet within a week you would have multiple people to choose from.

[Igooo]

It frustrates me that I'm not a 5 in looks or look decent.

[PrettyPriya]

Okay. What is your question you want users to answer? Without an actual question, you won’t get many quality responses. Plus, another moderator might hide this for violation on the “No Question” rule.

”No Question – Questions that lack relevancy and a genuine question our members can address are removed. These are questions that are not in question format. If you have an opinion about something or want to make a statement, consider sharing a myTake instead!”

So, what I suggest is using the update box to update your “question” with an actual question for us to answer.

Once you have done that, I will revise my opinion accordingly. You will also likely get a lot more opinions if users know what you are asking advice on.

[Igooo]

I didn't know what else to put.

[PrettyPriya]

Are you asking what to do or?

[Igooo]

Yes I'm asking what to do.

[PrettyPriya]

Maybe just add a quick update that says “What do I do to better my chances at meeting guys?”

[Igooo]

What do I do to better my chances at meeting men?

[collie22]

do you go out and do things where you might meet someone?

[Igooo]

No I don't.

[D_Bone_Steak]

32 and no sex? Just start lifting weights. Unless you're looking unhealthy I cannot comprehend you not getting propositioned whenever you step foot into public. Living in the middle of nowhere off grid or something is the only other scenario I can think of.

With all of that said, if you are in society and what I would call "fuckable," then I would say you've been actively shooting down every guy that did shoot their shot with you.

[Igooo]

It frustrates me that men don't propositions and that I'm not fable.

[FunkyMonkee]

Neither do I and I've had lots of sex (with my ex-fiance). But, just for the first 3 years we were together. The next 16 months, she only fucked me twice. Then, the next 4 or 5 years there was NOTHING!! So, it's been 27 years (damn near) since the last time I fucked ANYBODY!

[AllGoodNamesRGone]

I don't know but i strongly feel like., Single is no longer a lack of options - but a choice. A choice to refuse to let your life be defined by your relationship status but to live every day Happily and let your Ever After work itself out.

[Igooo]

What do I do about it?

[mobiusforniner]

What you must do, you dont want to hear...

[Igooo]

@mobiusforniner Why don't I?

[Drumlin2001]

I was 35, never had relationship or done anything physical with anyone. By 40 I'm engaged with 2 kids.
It's not too late, but you have to be proactive and make it happen.

[Igooo]

What if I' not attractive enough?

[goaded]

I had a friend in the same situation, got married, had a child soon afterwards. Don't panic. Find someone nice. It will all work out.

[Igooo]

What if I'm not attractive enough?

[goaded]

I think you said elsewhere you get asked out. You're attractive enough.

[Igooo]

I said that wrong.

[clampfan101]

Same here at 34yo.
I had a casual relationship with my childhood sweetheart, and we wanted to marry eventually, but she passed away before so much as a first kiss…

[Igooo]

What do I do about it?

[clampfan101]

We just need to keep looking. We’ll find someone eventually.

[FilmGuy93]

I hear ya! What are some reasons that you haven’t been able to find someone to date?

[Igooo]

It's probably because of looks.

[FilmGuy93]

Have you seen the women men date? Lmao seriously, if you can’t find a man to date, it’s a question of where you meet men, the kinds of people your friends are, and what sort of hobbies you have.

12 times out of 10, when a woman can’t find anyone to date it’s either because or some combination of; she’s trying to meet men somewhere that doesn’t attract commitment oriented people, her friends are chronically single people, or she’s a boring person.

[moviedude714]

Have you tried online dating or dating apps? Just asking because the majority of people in society will agree that women have more options on there than men do