How do I get over my crush on my new personal trainer?

[anonbrunette99]

Crush is bad because.

1. I’m partly concerned about what he thinks of me, and I’m getting super nervous / intimidated doing certain exercises or even worrying about how I look whilst working out knowing he’s watching as it’s his job 2. I’m certain the attraction isn’t and will not be reciprocated 3. He has a pregnant girlfriend who he seems very much in love with.

[Phoenix98]

If it's gonna be a problem for you then get another trainer otherwise you won't be able to focus and it'll be a waste of your money.

And even if he didn't have a girlfriend if he is a legitimate trainer then he can't do anything with you anyways regardless as we can get in a lot of trouble for that kind of thing including losing our job which is bad because when you work at a gym as a trainer your contracted so that means no work for you as your contract bound to not work at a different gym as a trainer until your contract runs out regardless of whether you work there anymore or not.

[Mark987]

You are there to train, if you find him a distraction you need a new trainer. You should try and separate a crush from working out. His job is to make sure you get to your goal. You shouldn't be nervous or intimidated by doing certain exercises at all, his job is to make sure you have the right form, and do the exercises properly.

[misfittoy]

you can always get a new trainer, but you will get over it with time and meeting others. you can always change gyms as well

[caring__1]

I'd suggest changing your trainers. Explain to him you feel distracted when he trains you, and you believe a change in trainers might help. Let him know you've learned a lot from him and would appreciate a recommendation for another trainer.

[RealMarek]

Either get over it immediately or find a different trainer.

[Andres77]

The fact that he has a girlfriend should be all that matters. Move on

[Twalli]

You have to find a different guy. Assume your personal trainer won't like you back so stop worrying about how you look to him.

[EaterPeter]

Replace him and don't crush on the next guy like me crush on almost each and every good looking woman.

[Anonymous]

You got to sex it up girl! Wear something skin tight and leave the sports bra at home. See if he notices!

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

stop being a cliche?

[Anonymous]

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