What should I do about my feelings towards my personal trainer?

[jgokgotit]

For the past 3 months I've been seeing a personal trainer to try to get me back to the shape I was in while in the military. She is damn good at her job and I do not want to mess with that. However, we have talked about pieces of our lives overtime and I straight up admire her heart, work ethic and personality. I am usually very reserved and guarded around people outside of my close circle of loved ones. However, with her I feel at ease. In fact, I find myself actually WANTING to share parts of my life with her and actually struggling to keep things to myself when normally I struggle to even talk to and open up. I know this sounds stupid.

[jennifer_bloom]

Finding another female outlet or male outlet that you can disclose your feelings to might help you lower your emotional investment in the trainer, I think she might be filling a void or absence in your life that you previously did not fill with other things whether that is companionship or youth or innocence or quick wittedness etc...