I heard so many theories that women go for bad boys and women love being treated poorly but I am lost, something is just not right what is the truth?

[Mysticality]

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because I don't like to be treated poorly and go for evil people so other people probably feel simillar!!!

[Rockstarrrrr]

Well, imagine you're an attractive woman... Or sometimes just a woman lol.. You got a lot of guys trying to impress you and please you to win you over waiting for your signal all that while all you do is exist... And there's this guy who's the opposite of them doesn't give you proper attention and doesn't go out of his way to impress you doesn't treat you like a priority but always keeping you on your toes... Okay? Who's gonna stand out to you? Who's the one you'll try to get validation from? Now imagine if that guy is also good looking... See? It's not that hard for a girl to fall for bad boys...

[Sweetsy]

Actual good girls don't go for bad guys beacuse they mean trouble and will never put up with guys who treat them poorly. A lot of girls who choose bad boys are usually bad themselves, just want sex, or judging a book by it's cover. The reason a lot of girls are attracted to bad boys is because of his constant flaunting of dominance, strength, and assertiveness. It's in a woman's nature to find a guy that will be strong and protect them. But some women who are aware that bad boys mean trouble think they can just jump into the bad boy's life and save them which usually results in really bad consequences. As for women who like to be treated poorly, that usually stems from some sort of abuse she endured in her childhood. But just because a guy doesn't flaunt himself like a bod boy does that doesn't mean he is any less of a strong man and trust me, a good girl knows this.

[Agape93]

It's nonsense. Bad boys, to us, are guys who are a bit rebellious and fun. But we don't like being mistreated nor are we usually after actual bad guys.

[Mysticality]

I don't understand why on every step there are films teeling yuong men how women are horrbile and only go for money black pills red pills I don't know even know what more. Maybe you find to know where this nonsense terms and theories come from?

[Agape93]

It comes from people who are bitter or have issues dating or getting laid. They don't want to put forth effort or expect automatic gratification, and when they don't they get mad

[mobiusforniner]

Its a misconception used by guys who can't get any and blame the competition in a frail attempt to boost their obvious shortcomings.

I mean, I consider myself a nice person. Generally go out of the way to help others, even at significant cost to myself, treat others kindly, smile and I am happy. I have women approach me all the time.

And me wearing a ring apparently doesn't matter to them.

[mr4435669]

Women tend to be attracted to the Dark Triad—narcissism, manipulativeness, & psychopathy

[Mysticality]

Maybe it's about security? Dark Triad is just an ilusion? Maybe you judge a book by it's cover?

[mr4435669]

This suggests personality does matter to women, but not in the manner popularly claimed.

www.sciencedirect.com/.../S0191886913012245

[BJP21]

Just like how the guy tries to find that bad rebellious girl that's tattooed and works at the strip club?

Sugar Daddy is what comes to mind and they're dicks.