In my teen years I was attracted to bad boys due to me being not only growing up in a sheltered environment but it was a way for me to rebel. When I was 16 I was head over heels for a "juvenile deliquent" that had a bunch of piercings, tattoos, long hair, dressed in all black, smoked pot, drinked, and had a record. I was madly infatuated because I loved the thrill and the danger he had to offer. Now I older and only want to be with someone stable, sweet, funny, and driven in life.
This is story of most people. Teenager is time when we become Rebel for no reasonsđ But for me it was nothing in case. I was an adult in teenager body. Rarely did any mistakes đ I didn't even drink till I turn legal and haven't drink a drop since 2 years. My friends were high on weed but I like to be awake. đ Good you learn from your experience and may you find a decent guy
Science, in particular evolutionary biology, partially explains why bad boys can be so compelling. Dr. Fugère says research shows women are more attracted to masculine men during the middle of their menstrual cycle, when theyâre most fertile. âMen with very masculine traits may have better quality genes, so it could be attractive to women on an unconscious evolutionary level,â.
âGirls possess a range of traits, like rebelliousness,â explains Robyn McKay, Ph. D., psychologist and co-author of Smart Girls in the 21st Century. âThese traits are typically repressed during childhood, as females are socialized to be compliant and agreeable. If a girl's inner life is unexpressed, she may be drawn to a bad boy as a way of vicariously expressing her own inner rebel.â
Basically, âWeâre attracted to qualities in others that we ourselves wish we had,â says sociologist and clinical sexologist Sarah Melancon, Ph. D. âA âgood girlâ may admire the bad boyâs sense of freedom. Despite the fact that this quality makes him an unsuitable partner for the long-term, it can make him so attractive, it's seemingly worth the potential pain associated.â
It's biological, and you should stop worrying about it. Some girls like to dance with the devil. Some of us devils are more than willing to oblige.
I think it's more interesting that you are simping all over the girls answers looking for validation. In reality girls just don't like simps. Simps are needy, controlling, bitter, and their nice guy role is a façade. They call women whores for liking sex, and taking one look at some of these nerd pick up artist forums there's no wonder a lot of you have problems getting laid.
You think being nice entitles you to a woman, it doesn't. Girls are more attracted to rebellious men who don't care what others think about them. They don't have to be bad, but a lot of people in that category would be called bad just for the pure reason that they are a rebel.
You need to look at yourself, and stop looking outward for reasons for your poor fortunes in love. You don't need to be a bank robber to find a woman. Eat clean, work out, and go to some therapy so you are mentally healthy and confident. The rest will fall into place.
Women are attracted to challenge. Itâs the romance story of being able to âtame and changeâ a bad boy that turns them on.
But the word âbad boyâ is too ambiguous. If itâs a guy who is an adventurer, spontaneous and says/does what he wants but at the same time doesnât feel the impetus to be an asshole than awesome. Good for him.
But more often then not itâs the guys who cause conflict, flight and argue with people for the sake of arguing that turn women on. Thatâs not confidence. Thatâs deep seated insecurity that he is compensating for. But most women fail to see the difference there. Or deep down they do know the ugly truth but they want it to âindulge the fantasyâ.
At the end of the day attraction isnât a choice but respect (including self respect) is. If these girls want to spread their legs for some exciting yet toxic bad boy than suit yourself. But when he screws you over (and he will) than donât look for some shoulder to cry on. There are CONSEQUENCES for your shitty decisions.
Because bad boys are hot and nice guys are not. Most bad boys are smart, tall, good-looking, and athletic. Girls have always been easy for bad boys. They snap their fingers and girls drop their panties.
It takes smart, tall, good-looking, and athletic guys very very little money, time, and effort to have sex with the prettiest girls. Therefore, for them, girls are like sand; they have very little value. Therefore, they don't respect girls and after fucking a pretty girl a few times, starting with all virgins, they move on to the next young pretty thing. That is why they are called bad boys.
Nice guys are average-looking guys with average intelligence, and usually not very athletic. Therefore, young pretty girls are not attracted to them. They never fuck virgins because they are not hot and virgins drop their panties for hot guys. To win a girl, nice guys must invest a lot of money, time, and effort. Therefore, when, after years of effort and a lot of money, they win a girl's favor, she is like a diamond; she is precious so they will do anything to keep her.
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Yo what's up, Bad Boy Salvia here sorry I snatched up all your girlfriends what can I say they just like bad boys. I think the reason I catch more tail than this entire replies section combined is that I don't give a shit if girls reject me. I mean I know I'm an asshole and I don't blame them for seeing that. They got me, you know what I mean? Maybe we'll slam later. Whatever. Meanwhile all it takes is one rejection and you pussies suddenly hate yourself for life. Dude I mean would you date you acting like a little bitch like that? I wouldn't date you, and I've dated some dudes. What I'm a bad boy, who says we can't be progressive bruh? Yo check it out wear sunglasses indoors and slick your hair back, that one's free. Next one's gonna cost you your crush, cause I'm gonna take her up to kissy lake lane, which doesn't exist that's a metaphor for all the kissing I'm gonna do to your biggest crush. But hurry up cause as a bad boy it seems like my main function in the dating system is for women to get guys like me out of their system before picking up a husband. Maybe that husband could be you, but only if you lift which you don't so your fucked bro. Not as fucked as LGBTQ rights in Trump's America, but still pretty fucked dude.
No they aren't. Type theories are too rigid in my opinion.
It's a well circulated myth about women that they dig bad boys. Some do, and end up with alcoholics or single mothers or something similar.
It's something men tell themselves to avoid feeling used. Cuz apparently, a woman can't sleep around. It's against her nature. They want kids, car, money and husband and she's set. Any other lady is just a bimbo who is andrenaline junkie.
It's not us who are giving name to man. I never call my friend bad even if he is đ Most of girl has a story of a bad guy ruining their life and using them. And women can sleep with anyone they want. It will be win win situation for us.
Everything was going fine and then she cheated. I ask her why. She said she hates it when things are perfect and beautiful. It is like a drug addiction
Hmm no that's not it. It's more of a self destruction thing. I believe I'm a terrible person, and don't deserve something so beautiful and peaceful. So whenever I find myself in beauty and peace, I ruin it. I leave it. I make sure it won't come back. And I seek out others like me.
I don't want happiness. And more then that. I don't want to bring down someone who deserves happiness.
Most all of my ex's are married and have children now. They found their perfect match. But that wouldn't have happened if I hadn't controlled myself, and left them.
Some people that are like me, are unlike me, in the way that they like to bring those of the light to the darkness with them.
I don't understand it. I want to hurt the light, but I also don't want to. Thankfully I'm not too far gone.
Isn't it should be easy to fix if you know the problem. Yes karna will take it own course. But there is always chance of getting better.. I wish you all the best
@ailito I'm objectively horrible in all regards but I don't let that slow me down. Sound like you need meds, perspective, and learn to truly enjoy hate.
100% sure he isn't. Never dated a bad boy, depending on definition of course. I go for the one's with the nice personality and HUMOUR above anything else. I live to laugh.
Women generally are attracted to attractive men. Sometimes this attraction makes other considerations take a back seat.
I don't believe women are attracted to bad boys per se, and much of what some men consider "bad" is behavior I really don't think is bad. Women are attracted to attractive men, some of whom turn out to be bad.
It boils down to the very primal instinct in the animal we call human. That's the attraction towards leadership and assertiveness.
The one thing all "bad boys" have in common is they know what they want and are not afraid to ask for it and that is what makes women tick has they see this guy living the life everyone dreams of and they feel drawn to the life more than the person.
Now when a bad boy is also a douche they end up digging their own graves especially if they have his kids, but the right bad boy is the ideal man for any woman, bad enough to make up his own mind but good enough to chose not to harm others, her included
Because the bad guy and guys on that spectrum (including simps) are easier for women to understand. These guys are ruled by emotions and act as if they don't have to be responsible for anything that they do. She understood everything that makes him tick when she was 4 years-old.
That said, there's women who simultaneously 'date' the bad boy type while also dating a good guy type. It's like having two different flavors of ice cream. Women tend to not want the bad boy type when they get old enough to realize that life is finite and they don't want to spend their whole life going down a dead end.
I ain't exactly to sure why most women find them appealing I will only assume she is just probably rebelling her parents law or something. Or she could realistically have super low self-esteem issues and in their minds a "bad boy" is their only way to seek temporary confidence.
You mean immature pubescent minors or immature teenies? In my experience men who ask such questions meean girls at their old Highschool or women who are 18-20. So i dont get them since they literally asking why minors/teenies are immature and so have bad choice in picking partners. This is like asking why kids act like kids instead of being mature.
So no offence but if you look after adult women or women whose brain development is finished, you won't face such problems, otherwise it is your own fault. This is like complaining why a 17 -18 old guy is immature and does not want to marry. So dear guys look after adult women, not minors or teenies.
Nah I have seen 30 year old women complaining about fuck but in Gag đ soÂŻ\_(ă)_/ÂŻ I don't think it's necessary you become wiser when you get old it can go in different way đ
I am sorry for being rude lol you can be right but very young people or minors mostly tend to be immature unlike adult people who tend to be more mature. So there are more mature adult people than adult minors/Teenies.
Well I appreciate people who learn from their experience insted of destroying their life on one bad incident. You are good example for those girl. Who think this is the end. All men are asshole đ
My theory is that these girls have never experienced real love from a man so the most exciting relationship they can think of is a bad boy. Just like when a guy thinks eggs taste god because heâs never had egg drop soup. Or when a girl thinks ginger ale tastes good because sheâs never had a home made fruit smoothie before.
Iâm not really into bad boys, but have found them charming and knowing the right things to say. They often know how to flirt which breaks the ice with a girl/women and makes it easier to let down your guard. Bad boys usually have a few problems so if you have issues itâs probably minor compared to theirs lol.
You literally answered your own question. Here. Maybe this will get the point across more effectively. Daniel Hernandez AKA Tekashi 6ix9ine is the idol image of a bad boy getting "girls". Or the Jailbird Jeremy Meeks. (6ix9ine is not even 6 feet tall. If you as a man can compensate for it a lot, then you can be a magnet to the opposite sex.)
He got more bitches still đ In a way I don't look at him in disgust. He can do it, so he does and he's having fun. Granted I don't want to look like him but the way he can afford to live his life is something I look forward to myself.
Same logic applies across wanting bitches or wives but with different executions and methods. In fact money can land you a good wife (although you're much more likely to find gold diggers) and personality can land you a bitch, that will cheat on you (although you're much more likely to find a friendly girl). Class attracts class. Filth attracts filth. Elegance attracts elegance. The choice is ours to make. 6ix9ine has many options. Although if he wants a good wife, he screwed up already. He has 2 kids and cheated on his baby mama (Sara) he claimed to love whilst also beating her up.
Itâs the rebelliousness and adventurous nature that seems to be attached to the âbad boyâ persona. Perhaps this appeals to a more base/naturally masculine man, specifically on how men evolved overtime and how men became successful.
Thereâs an element of risk involved
Men take risks
Bad boys perhaps embody that man who takes risks, not afraid to adventure, etc.
Lol the fact the avoid relationship and only like casual sex is an example how weak they are. Love and relationship is a great relationship. Getting a p*ssy isn't that hard đ
The ''Mostly'' part is not accurate. I know many people, relatives and friends to people i just know and most of them are pretty decent guys and none of their women/girls/wives would like to date or be with a bad boy. A bad boy is not just a look but it's this whole thing being toxic and in many cases kind of broken morally and emotionally person. The girls i know very few dated real bad boys and they still traumatized even though the did it 5 years ago or even more.
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Personally the bad boys I was with were very handsome, smart and charming. They could get many girls and maybe therefore they did not treat them so well. Did not stay long until I realised how bad they actually were and that it could not make up for their few nice qualities.
You've kind of answered your own question. "Bad boys" have other women interested in them, therefore they have less incentive to obsess over 1 woman. This drives women crazy as they attempt to gain attention from them.
I wouldn't say mostly, just because they are not attracted to you.
Its the sence of excitement... there's some type of sexual attraction. Bad guys are just better at making women feel good about themselves and generating that since of adventure.
Good guys can be a bit boring, but as women get older they tend to scruntize more.
Hmmm... Maybe in some circles. Maybe in high school. Bit it's not true of successful adult women. Most of my friends and colleagues have lovely partners, and they are not "bad boys" in any sense. I think that women with poor self-esteem are often attracted to the "bad boys" because they feel inadequate to attract a conventionally successful man.
Birds of a feather flock together. If you have a broken moral compass youâre bound to see those willing to behave like common thugs as strong and powerful. Women are attracted to strength. Why else would thousands of women write love letters to Ted Bundy?
I don't think it was his strength they admire. I think these women hate their self so much that they want brutality happen to them. People like Ted Bundy are cowards who stab people on their back catch them off gaurd. Like those sucker punch criminals.
Women donât respect weakness thatâs for sure. Try acting like a big ole puss with the next girl you take out and see what happens. They are attracted to strength which comes in many forms.
I fully agree. Your missing my point. If you are an evil person you will view those who do what he did as strong.
This is in part why thugs are weak. Life would be all too easy if I had no moral convictions. If I felt at ease enough in my conscience to steal, commit violence and do any manner of thing at will. Self discipline and the discipline to live within a moral code require strength, but evil people over look that strength. They see those who take what whatâs not theirs by force and extort the week as strong.
Most bad boys are inherently rich so don't have to work like normal guys, most of them are good-looking too. That's one perk for being rich that you can maintain yourself. Plus they will have cars, bikes, apartments from early in their life. Now that's a huge advantage over most men. A large section of women still goes for less laborious or high-paying jobs that require a lot of years since women in job sectors are very new. Now women being housewives are very much acceptable in society so men with early resources and huge time are highly desirable, so the so-called bad boys will get a surplus of women after them. When you get that large pool to choose from, they know they can get away with any behavior.
For me its because I feel they are special to me and I dont care about what they look because I never notice that, All I notice to them is there attitude and personalities because they are being a bad boy for a reason 😅Inguess thats all my opinion.
Ego/confidence/arrogance. Being a bad boy isn't required for this, but most women require ego/confidence/arrogance in a man, despite few men possessing it.
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Actually, no one is attracted to "bad" people. We are just being told that is "normal" to do so. Let's think about it
I have wondered this time and time again. especially when a women continues to choose assholes consistently over nice guys even when she has plenty of attractive nice guys to choose from. I have seen women set themselves up time and time again for abusive relationships. I can understand going for with guy with a strong personality but why choose someone who disrespects you
I donât know about thatâŚ. Iâm a really nice guy and I get women approaching me. In fact, sometimes I would get more girls because I wasnât like the other guys being a-holes.
Superb question!!! I want to see where this continues to go. I think they are mostly attracted to what is perceived as "brave" or what sets the guy apart from average.
â the thought of someone being bad to everyone else but treating you like a dime is alluringâ until he turns in on you and make no mistake he will.
Those are the ones with daddy issues or that love toxic relationships. Don't be fooled. The girls that are stable and smart, the best ones, use them all the time for a quick fuck.
Evolution is always at the root of these things. It is the reason for the existence of certain recurring patterns. And high levels of testosterone plays a significant role in these patterns.
@punishant "Bad Boys" always end up disappointing. They always puss out when actual action is needed and flinch at gunfire. I have never seen a "Bad Boy" just edgy teens.
Guys are attracted to bad girls too. Most of the time itâs cuz theyâre hot and popular. Theyâre also more selfish and better at grooming themselves. Like the dark triad personalities.
But when we go after bad girls we are clear with our priorities. Probably easy sex. But I have seen women think bad guys can make good relationship. They endup hurt.
because the bad boy gives her the emotional high. Once she fucked around and has become a cum dumpster she finds the dumb nice guy who will pay her bills and gives him missionary.
Lol looks like i hurt someones feelings. Well I know one thing for sure a nice guy wouldn't say that a bad boy wouldn't say that only an incel would say that.
Noticed you changed your picture to hide that big ass cow catcher chin of yours. Brad only has one dick and his friends would give him shit if he caught the clap from the Wicked Witch of the West with a spray on tan.
So you said your self you manage your stress by being a Dick online which means offline you dont have the dick to support this disgusting behavior. I believe you are what is called a coward.
Hard to miss Jay Leno's chin in drag. So Face of Spades want dig up any better attention whoring pics for your next profile pic? Good on you for cutting what butter-face freak show you drag around to make yourself look good. Probably looks like Sloth from the goonies with tits.
Mad no. Im annoyed because your annoying. Im sure your stepdad would agree. And @gag your block button is broken please fix it i need it to work this time So did you ever find the man who fit your matching glass dildo
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