Would you stop seeing someone to save relationship with your SO?

[laraWM]

I mean like your family ask you to choose, or your SO doesn't like one of your friend? Or do you think it doesn't worth it?

[20yearsolder]

I'm not going to stop seeing someone just to make somebody else that's not even in the relationship happy. They can either get over it or we're probably not going to be friends anymore. If it's a family member, still not dumping somebody because they're pissed off or don't like them.

[laraWM]

Yes I feel the same but maybe they could understand or see something you couldn't

[20yearsolder]

That is a possibility, we live and learn when we're in a relationship. Now if they can logically give me a reason why, I will definitely listen but they're going to have to be pretty damn convincing

[laraWM]

Yes you're right

[Sixgunsound]

I picked my wife and kids over my mother. That was a long time coming though, from decades before I met her.

[Guardian45]

Do you regret it? Do you speak to your mother?

[Sixgunsound]

@Guardian45 not if I can help it, and thus far it’s been fine. She keeps threatening other people we still talk to in order to get them to make us talk to her again. That is just further evidence of her toxicity and that my kids don’t need that in their lives.

[Sixgunsound]

Thanks for MHO

[TroyDT]

No. If she wants me to ditch a friend she is the one getting ditched.

[Guardian45]

Why?

[Guardian45]

I get VERY ANGRY in those scenarios. It's emotional blackmail.