Would you wait for somebody to get out of a relationship?

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I usually won't But for him... I am

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

It’s usually the wise decision to do that , because it’s better than having your heart played with or strung along , especially if the other person can’t make up their mind. I have hooked up with girls’ that lied to me that they were single and we hooked up and had sex. After sex she would confess to me she was already in a relationship with someone else , me personally wished she told me the truth before hand , but sadly this is somewhat a common thing I encountered with girls , a lot of people tend to do shit like this these days , basically latching on to someone else , while they are still in a relationship with someone else. I am thankful she told me the truth , but I am upset that she wasn’t honest with me up front. I will tell her thanks for a good time but not a long time and tell her I will no longer see her anymore until she ends her marriage or relationship , Shockingly they usually go back to their partners ’ like nothing happened. So if she wants to be with me , she has to prove she is leaving her partner for me or I won’t waste anymore of my time with her Sadly , most people look for someone else, when they are unhappy in their current relationship. This sort of thing happens more than we like to think , I been on both sides of the spectrum , to the point I no longer care about a girls’ relationship status anymore , all that matters to me , is if she is honest with me upfront , if she isn’t being honest with me , than I’m sorry that isn’t my problem , that’s hers. If I know a girl is already in a relationship with someone , out of respect for her relationship, I do not invest time into her or show interest in her what so ever , I might look if she is attractive but that’s it , but if she shows interest in me and is flirting with me and hitting on me , then I’m sorry, I am more than likely going to end up in bed with her if she continues throwing herself at me. Honesty is one of the biggest things that turns me on about a girl , if she is honest with me , will be honest with her period. Sadly a lot of people have a hard time being honest with each other and they wonder why their relationships don’t last. So if someone wants to cheat and lie Go for it , but don’t be surprised when you are left standing there in the dust , you are only digging your own grave. It’s very rare to meet someone these days that actually ended their relationship before investing their time into someone else , so many people have back up plans or rebounds because , most people are scared to be honest , and scared to be alone. I don’t have time to be an investigator, and I can’t be happy with someone if I have to investigate constantly. I want someone that can trust me like i trust them , without trust for each other we have nothing

HouseMoat · Accepted Answer

Don't be one of those girls. Find a new guy. If he wanted you, he would have gone for you!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No. Even with "promises," I have always felt like either you want me and you've made the decision already to break up and have done it, or you go off and do you and I'll find someone who is ready for me. Promises to break up mean nothing. Action does.

Becky316 · Accepted Answer

I did.

AviatorTom · Answer

If she is "taken", I wish her well and move on.

Avicenna · Answer

It's generally a bad idea to wait for someone. There are other people out there you can date.

Lynx122 · Answer

No I basically just live my life and if a woman wants to be with me she has to fit into my life. That reduces the number of women that are available but it guarantees that if I'm with a woman she is going to treat me well. And right now that's the situation I'm in. I was just living my life and this woman I met online really wanted to be with me.

When I was younger I pursued women more but it only ended in pain for me. Now I'm happy. I still have things to work through because I'm not experienced and I've gotten used to only taking care of myself but it's honestly going well so far.

I feel like as a man if you're in the position of wanting her, waiting for her, catering to her all the time and adoring her, it just doesn't work out well. I wish it would, I wish I could have a love story like I imagined it when I was young, like a fairy tail but this is real life. In real life the woman just doesn't appreciate you or love you when you're loving her that much. So I have a good relationship and we're both happy :)

ImalwaysrightOK · Answer

You do realize you're putting your life and your potential future on hold, possibly turning away a real Mr Right for a guy who is currently unavailable, with another girl and may remain unavailable.

ThatOneGuy247 · Answer

No no. Because there's so many women to date. This is a scarcity mindset. It means I have not options. This is very unlikely it'll happen to me. And if it did happen to me, I would increase my value in order to attract many women so I can be with a woman I truly care about

SherriMarieValentine · Answer

Depends on the situation, maybe. But, there would have to be a mutual connection, that has been expressed. I will NOT however engage in relationship behavior until they are clear of the relationship.

Phoenix98 · Answer

I'm not gonna sit there and wait for someone who's in a relationship but if I happen to be single and she happens to get out of the relationship and wants to try something sure I'll give it a shot.

sawno · Answer

Been there done that, never worked out. So no, not anymore. If she wants me she has until I am taken. Once I am taken she is to late. If she doesn't want me I am glad that I didn't wait on the off chance her relationship fails.

Anonymous · Answer

I found someone who is out of a heartbreak complication. It's just been a month since her heart break unfortunately. We both fancy each other but she was honest that she can't marry so soon. So, I want to wait for her. Guess what, despite her daughter I think this can work because she is worth more than a 100 girls. That's how much I have fallen for her wits and naivety and personality. Having been out of a bad engagement myself I am deeply in love with he

IslaTheWitch · Answer

If someone is in the relationship, I can't and by choice don't want to interfere. I also should take care of my own life. So no. I wouldn't "wait".

exitseven · Answer

I have done this but only because the relationship she was in didn't seem like much of a relationship to me

DizzyDesii · Answer

I’d likely date someone else but if we’re ever single at the same time, fairgame

Katebfun · Answer

No. Because what's meant for me won't pass me by. Having false hope is not good.

ThrillSeeker01 · Answer

I wouldn't wait. If you do you lose control of your feelings and depend on something you don't know about

AaronKrieger · Answer

No, dating someone who just got out of a relationship is a bad idea.

Jazzy54 · Answer

Why would you do that? Plus, if he got with you, you’d probably be nothing more than a rebound.

katiesmuff · Answer

What makes you think he is going to get out of his current relationship! So no I wouldn't wait

Nikki1989 · Answer

No, but a few guys have dumped their partners to be with me.

Tina19 · Answer

I understand that strong feeling towards that person but by doing that you will be unfair towards yourself letting go is better for own sake

Billlewis · Answer

Normally I wouldn't, but I'd gladly wait a thousand years for you, Goddess ❤️

Lynxistp · Answer

I wouldn't consider a taken guy an option in the first place.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

what if there was a time limit, when you actually knew when he'd get out? that's called jail

Peter_Penetrator · Answer

Currently waiting. If we happen we happen. If not l will be sad, but not debilitating sad.

rienna888 · Answer

hell no, likely theyll still be hung up on that person and I dont know when they will get over that relationship so no.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

YEAH ITS NOT LIKE I GOT ANYTHING GOING IN THE MEANTIME

Anonymous · Answer

I was in love deeply in love with someone until she shattered my heart last year

NathanDavis · Answer

that doesn't sound healthy to me...

Anonymous · Answer

Doing it right now

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I don't want her if she's taken.

Joker_ · Answer

I ain't waiting buddy

FenixG45 · Answer

I might, but it depends on for how long?

riverrat3 · Answer

You may have a long wait

spartan55 · Answer

Don't think so

Anonymous · Answer

No, I think that's stupid and a waste of time.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Nope.

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