How long, if ever, did you wait for someone who wasn’t ready to be in a relationship with you?

I’ve been seeing a guy since the end of last year and I really really like him. I asked a few times if he would ever want to be with me and he would brush it off and tell me how much he liked me. I finally gave up and outright said look I take it you don’t actually want to be in a relationship with me. He explained that he couldn’t tell me why he wasn’t ready but he just wasn’t. He said he would work on himself and then do it properly with me.

I really want to be with this man but deep down I feel that it’s never going to happen. Would you wait? Have you ever been in a similar situation, what did you do?

I know he isn’t using me for sex or whatever because we’ve never gotten that far. Just incase it looks like that is the case.

I guess I just would like to know what you would do or have done or if you have been this guy before because I’m really struggling.
How long, if ever, did you wait for someone who wasn’t ready to be in a relationship with you?
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