Is okay to share past experiences with your boyfriend with your guy friend? Like everything you did? with your boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

[caring__1]

It's healthy to share what you've learned from your past experiences. Sharing details of your past experiences will only limit your relationship. Once the details have been shared, we start making everything about comparisons rather than appreciating the experience for what it is. Not only that, we also limit our future experiences, because we don't want to do what our partner has done with someone else. Letting your partner know how past experiences have impacted you and how past experiences have led to changes in present behavioral patterns gives your partner greater insight into you, and that can draw the two of you closer.

[Guy13]

As long as he does not find out. This would be an issue for me. I like privacy in personal relationship. Does he know?

[Asker]

yeah he knows

[Guy13]

Is he upset?

[Asker]

no. because im upset with him and were done already

[Guy13]

Oh, why don’t you explain what’s going in. I’m like a ping pong ball 🏓 here

[Asker]

im not comfortable though

[Guy13]

Okay. No pressure from me. Be safe.

[SeriouslyFunny00]

[SeriouslyFunny00]

The question is.. would you like it if your boyfriend do the same? Revealing your secrets as well?

[Asker]

he knows that i shared it with my guy friend..

[Asker]

were already done and i dont have some outlet.

[Anonymous]

NO, that is not a good idea and I seriously doubt your boyfriend would like it.

[In_Trance]

Depends on the experiences