How would you feel about your partner liking an exes photo even if the ex was just a hook up situation?

[Anonymous]

[genericname85]

that would obviously depend on the context. like what's the picture? her at the beach in a bikini? or her at her graduation?

[Asker]

Just a selfie of her face, nothing provocative or anything

[genericname85]

yeah. i definitely understand how this is weird to you. i'd just talk about it with my partner. avoid accusations. make them feel like you'll be ok with it either way even though you may not be ok with it.

i'm "guessing" he just keeps her warm in case things with you don't work out. i don't think that is necessarily a bad thing. i think most people sort of do that. it is just something that you should avoid making your partner aware of xD i think having a "plan B" is ok for your partner to have as long as you're still "plan A" to them.

[Asker]

I mean he did unfollow her not long after so I’m hoping that’s good sign…

[genericname85]

i mean your description is a bit weird to me to be honest. like is she his "ex" or just "a hookup". can't be both.

[Asker]

It was just a hook up. They were both drunk and agreed it didn’t really mean anything.

[genericname85]

ok. i'm guessig it's just him keeping a loose contact just in case stuff with you doesn't work out and he may wanna hook up again. i don't think this is a sign of him planning to leave you or cheat on you.

[Asker]

They did hook up over 3 years ago and he hasn’t spoken to her since that night so who knows.

[genericname85]

i certainly wouldn't like random chicks images. specially not if i had a girlfriend. i don't understand why guys even like pictures of random hot girls. seems a waste of time to me.