How would you react if the guy you like reacted 🔥🙌 on his ex's photo?

[Anonymous]

I helped this guy moved on but he is still good friends with his ex ( i do feel a tad jealous but i cannot control him). I keep telling him that I like him but he does not say anything and today he reacted 🔥🙌 on his ex's photo it does not really bother me as such but it hurts and i fear I will fall for him and won't be able to let go. I was considering leaving right away. P. s I have known him since 1 year now and helped him move on and trying to make a dream job become a reality. What should i do?

[pajamasam]

Yeah he's already taking steps down a dark road. You can try to stop him or help but if he's already made his mind up there's little to be done.

One of the hardest lessons I ever had to learn is that

You can't change people by loving them. Sometimes it feels like "he could be a better person if I loved him" or "maybe if he knew I cared he would change"

Sometimes men feel the same way about women but it doesn't work, you can't change people with your love, they have to decide to change on their own.

If he doesn't take your advice and makes the dumb decision all I can really say is that you deserve a hug, because I needed good women in my life to tell me not to go back to my exs your doing the lords work.

Please accept my virtual hug 🤗

[Asker]

Just let him be, he will knock himself down at some point. I will stay silent and remove myself until he will realize by himself, why hasn't she messaged me? God give me courage to keep some self control. When i saw him, he was hurt because his Ex-GF left him since 2 years and he kept putting appearances. I pick him up and was helping him move on but still he wanted to keep contact with her. let him go... we will all progress and he will stay back in 2016 until he finally wakes up and realise that he lived a wasted life :D I spoke with him a lot... now i stay silent and let go...
God has rewarded me with the job that he actually wanted, I don't need more... Thank you for your kind words :)

[pajamasam]

Your very welcome

[ashish804]

let him fuck off because he is still attached and will go fucking her if she open her legs and ur hard work amd emotion will go in vain

[Asker]

this is what i fear, I will end the journey here then. when I saw that comment i did not take it bad but it's ok, I did what i could and god has rewarded me. Thank you :)

[ashish804]

yeahh.. it was ur good nature and staying more will make u hurt more and more rather u should move on letting him fuck off and u should enjoy rest of ur life...

[Danny_dan92]

You shouldn’t be interacting with a guy that still follows his ex at all tbh.


Unless all you want is his cock with no strings attached

[Dinklex3]

I'd move on as soon as he ignored my feelings.

[ChocoBrowny]

Abort mission. He's going to the dark side.