You don't want your partner to cheat on you but how perfect are you?

[Anonymous]

You don't want your partner to cheat on you but how perfect are you?

[BullShark]

Yeah well, "perfect" isn't the word I'd go for here, sweetheart. Nobody's perfect and that's what the true meaning of love really is; to accept and appreciate someone for who they really are, faults, mistakes, peeves and all. When you love someone, even their most annoying traits seem attractive and cute to you even if it bothers others.

But if you're looking to know the reasons why my partner should NOT cheat on me (even though I'm pretty sure she did towards the final year of our relationship), first and foremost, I'm a very straightforward and no bullsh*t guy.

I never beat around the bush and tell things as they are. So if a dress actually DOES make you look fat, I'll tell it to your face whether you like it or not because you asked me. But that being said, that also means I'll never lie to you either. If you ask me about a friend of mine, I'll tell you everything you need to know about them so you don't have any negative thoughts about said person and so you know whatever we have is platonic. This also means that loyalty and honesty is also a very important to me as well. If it's the end of the world, you can bet your ass we're in this together.

[D_Bone_Steak]

The number 1 reason I would cheat on a woman is because she has cheated on me.

Like if she's texting guys all the time and going out with the girls constantly while she leaves you at home with the kids... yeah, I already know it's going to happen. And if that's going to happen I might as well do it too.

The number 2 reason I would cheat might not happen out of me at all because I would just fucking leave her ass first. She's become a total kunt. Maybe have me trapped with her financially or dependent on her, but she's become a person I can't fucking stand. I'm already jerking it to other chicks 5 times a day with my phone in the bathroom. I might as well not bug that total kunt with my stupid problem and find a chick that will milk my free willy with a smile on her face and give me a compliment. lolz

[boredgal]

I don't really get this question. Are you saying that in order for my partner not to cheat, I have to be perfect first? Or are you saying that I made mistakes too and that justify him cheating on me because we are not perfect and we make mistakes? Girl I don't know what you're talking about but let me tell you one thing, cheating is a choice and ANYONE (perfect or not) can cheat and be cheated on!!! and that is HORRIBLE. I can forgive someone who cheated but I won't give them another chance.

[TacosRAwesome]

Look I admit to being a trash goblin but if my partner signed up for a relationship and to being monogamous, it's what they signed up for.

[Guy13]

I, of course, have had that happen. Like you say imperfection is in all people. I took her back with a watchful eye. She made efforts to demonstrate a willingness for oversight.-I did not push her on that. It turns out 3 months down the road her heart was more fond for the other one... get ready for that possibility.

[MartinGoulet]

It all depends on the definition of <cheating> for each partners. For exemple, on the woman point of view, the fact that her partner is simply aware of his surrounding will be viewed as cheating. But that same person see anal sex as not cheating her partner. The rules are not clear on what is cheating or not.

[all_hayl]

What kind of question is this? Nonsensical questions like this really take away from this site.

[Adititte]

I don't cheat on my partner and if my partner cheats on me the relationship immediatly ends. I don't even think about cheating on someone

[JDAC092299]

I’m perfectly clear on that fact and the fact that if they do I won't want anything to do with them after

[blissinanarchy1]

When you say “but” you sound like you’re justifying her cheating because you aren’t perfect

[TroyDT]

If you mean cheating wise, I am absolutely perfect. If you mean as a person, I'm not and that is irrelevant to the fulfilment of a commitment.

[Twalli]

I'm not perfect, but I'm the best person she's ever been with. Her words, not mine. Also her mother's words.

[Anonymous]

no one is perfect so get that concept out of your head and i sure as hell never said i was perfect far from it. i know i have my flaws like everybody else does

[Jamie05rhs]

What's your point?
You think a woman needs to be perfect not to be cheated on?

[KrakenAttackin]

So you have to be perfect for your partner to not cheat?

[MrTaboo]

It's never about being "perfect".

It's about compromise and filling your SO needs/love languages

[Anonymous]

Being perfect has absolutely ZERO to do with loyalty.. you will understand that when you get older.

[Shamalien]

I’m not perfect, but I would never cheat, and I expect the same from my partner

[Headstrongcrazylover]

I never cheat but my partner may get irritated by continuous love from me. Lol

[Anonymous]

If she wants perfection she can just go away right now.

[JamesDiaz11]

I'm pretty damn perfect, actually.

[slatyb]

I've never cheated on a partner.

[FilmGuy93]

I've never cheated; if that's what you mean?

[Nahid1707]

Please don’t ask stupid questions like that