How Do You Feel About Big Age Gaps In Relationships?

[Aphrodite801]

Like 10, 20, or even 40 year age gaps? 💀 I’m really not understanding how she pulled this hot guy unless she was like super rich or something but yeah. Also when the man is older and is getting used for money it’s very obvious.

I have positive feelings

I have neutral feelings

I have negative feelings

[Smoothing]

Me personally, I think a big age gap is strange but there is nothing wrong with it as long as both partners feel they are getting what they need in their life. The photo you have shown doesn't surprise me. She probably managed to master the art of keeping a man and it worked for her on this occasion. Look at how happy he is. She is happy too. A strong relationship should always feel like home. Not a aware zone. Some how the relationship where there seems to be a big age gap, works because both partners truly feel a sense of home with their partner.

While self deceit continues with the rest of the world. Look at Celine Dion. How many marriages in the entertainment industry have lasted like hers and her late partner. That was another really big age gap.

If you are in a relationship where at the end of the day, coming back to your loved one feels like coming back home, you definitely solved the puzzle. If not, you are just as lost as majority of the world. Single, or in a relationship, married or unmarried.

[ohsheeT]

And this is why there's so many divorces on this planet with people because when they get with somebody they think the same way you are it has to be about money or it has to be about beauty what about the person on the inside what about the person they truly are whatever happened to that beauty if you can find somebody beautiful this within that has a kind heart that is smart that is wise that is Happy on the inside that's when true love really clicks what people don't understand is what you look like on the outside is not what makes you who you really are how much money you have is not what makes you who you really are if those are the things you're looking for it will never work because the relationship is not real if two people can find each other and understand who they are on the inside the odds of a relationship working and Lasting is 10 times greater than one's just picking because of beauty or what somebody has or does not have

[Aphrodite801]

No one is talking about marriage. And physical attraction matters, sorry to tell you

[BlueScorpio]

I admit sometimes it can be a bit odd, especially if they knew them since they were a kid. I'm not gonna lie the picture above definitely looks more like mother and son than husband and wife. Even though it may be strange, its not illegal as long as they are both adults.

[letuswaltzforthedead]

I think its sweet seeing a older guy / younger woman couple, many of the couples I know have a 5-10 age gap and are of that dynamic. I rarely see an older woman / younger guy so it's weird.

[Aphrodite801]

5 isn’t big, 10 depends on how old they are

[Aphrodite801]

Yeah you rarely see that apparently but that isn’t rare at all

[Haha456]

5 to 10 yr age gap is not a big age gap. big age gap is over 10 years

[letuswaltzforthedead]

Yeah, I know it's not a big age gap usually, I just mentioned it since I usually dont see that dynamic regardless of age. Ofc the question is geared towards bigger age gaps.

[Haha456]

things might work when you're 25 and they are 40 or 45. but you're not gonna be happy once you're 40 and they are 57 to 70.

[Aphrodite801]

Ngl it’s kinda cringe to say it’s sweet just one way and not the other? Especially when with the older guy a lot of women are just there for the money temporarily? 😂 I’ll leave it at that

[Aphrodite801]

Wait, you just said on a question you would date someone you aren’t attracted to and there’s nothing wrong with that? 😂😂 obviously a troll

[Haha456]

Only stupid people would say that age does not matter. Because reality is, things may work out when you're 25 and your spouse is 40-45. But when you hit 40 , and your spouse is 55-70, you will find yourself struggling to stay fulfilled. Its not fun being married to a senior citizen.

The saying " age is just a number is like saying a prison is just another room" is very correct.

Eventually these types of relationships will bite them back in the butt hard.

Not to mention, the younger spouse will likely spend a significant chunk 15 to 30 of their remaining years dying alone. is it worth it?

[Rockstarrrrr]

Most of the time they don't work because they're usually only about needs... Both of them.. Older and younger seriously need something and can't find it in people their age... It's very rare when it's mainly about the person... And for Aaron.. If I remember.. he said she saved him after being a destructive teen...

[420Rachel]

I do think it's strange but it's none of my business.

[RobT312]

If it works it works! However for me my only concerns would be when having kids or having enough in common

[Aphrodite801]

Well that depends on how big it is lol

[Bethany22]

Negative feelings if it's older guy younger girl, positive if the opposite. The former is just too common

[Aphrodite801]

Big age gaps in relationships guy or girl is not common

[Debbie14217]

im not into it but they prob break up or divorce not long after lol

[burlen]

Age is a number. To each their own.

[Aphrodite801]

And jail is a cell as everyone loves to reply to that stupid statement

[eagle1951]

don't think about them at all