What have sociopaths done to you?

[Bethany22]

Share your stories of how a sociopath ruined you. Was it a friend, partner, or teacher?

[JDAC092299]

I don't know if she was a sociopath but my ex fiancée isolated me from most of my friends early in our relationship. I let her because I loved her and she stood by me in some hard moments other people wouldn’t have. She posted one of our date photos on a roast page without my permission asking them to roast me and then showed me all the comments, She’d take me with her to her work to shop and then start an argument with me in front of her coworkers at any small thing she didn’t like, We went on holiday I sold a few old things of mine to boost our spending money and she spent it all on herself which I didn’t mind till towards the end of the holiday she decided to tell me I didn’t love her. She started going out with her coworkers and badmouthed me to the ground to them so I’d get horrible/disgusted looks from her coworkers whenever I went shopping alone. Oh and she brought a really weird coworker back to our house who insulted my humour and blew smoke into our cats face so I threw him out and said he couldn’t come back so we argued over that. Then finally she got with someone who was trying to get with someone else originally in her coworker friend group. She saw him multiple times, slept with him, talked to him for six months. Before finally deciding I was too much and our relationship could no longer work. She made out she was hugely affected by this revelation and cried, I felt bad so I brought her food to last her till she moved out and came back to our flat to check on her. I paid the leaving fees and all the bills for the last month and then a day later I found out what she’d been doing and her mood completely flipped she hates my guts now and she especially hates me because I told her lover how she lied about her own brother raping her to me once to keep me from leaving. I have no regrets but I do have a lot of reservations about getting into a new relationship.

[Mynameisbobby]

My mother and sister are sociopaths. After my dad died my mother and sister took everything that happened out on me. My mother hated the fact that I was born a boy but my dad kinda protected me from her. When he was gone she would believe everything my older sister said about me and let her beat me everyday. They both are crazy and my sister is 5 years older than me. My mother just told me I must have deserved being beat after all I am a boy and her precious daughter would never lie about me. At 13 my uncle adopted me which was the best thing that could ever happen to me.

[Anonymous]

Raped me, verbally and physically abused me, tried to kill me and threatened to kill me. Broke my sense of peace and trust in the decency of people. It's been almost a decade and I rarely sleep through the night without needing to be exhausted or drunk. Every night I do sleep and dream, I have nightmares. So I avoid sleep pretty often, sometimes for days. That makes my other mental health issues infinitely worse, which culminated in my second suicide attempt.

People don't seem to fully grasp the damage that their actions inflict. You may think it's minor, not a big deal, but it kills and ruins people.

[jennifer_bloom]

I have dealt with sociopaths for mostly my entire life, my parents, my cousins, my aunts and uncles, my stalkers, guys I rejected, girls who like guys I rejected etc...

[Bethany22]

Sorry to hear that Jennifer 😓

[hellknight666]

My ex I took a steak knife n inch n quarter from my spin and she cracked me in the head with a pipe wrench causing a concussion and possible memory issues years later, and she got off on no jail time just probabtion cause she pulled a sob story to the judge about how her dad raped her ad a kid and this and that all was true but left no excuse 25 years later for the abuse I suffered for almost 3 years

[blissinanarchy1]

False accusation of rape. Did 18 months before being found innocent. Bail was 750,000 and covid kept pushing trial back

[FunkyMonkee]

My ex-sisters fucked me out of my house and I also lost a LOT of personal stuff, half my life no longer exists, now!!

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I had a sociopaths bully me in middle school it was horrible

[maximumpower]

Married me and then took more than half of everything I owned.
She was also a shitty cook, a hoarder and shitty lay.
What was i thinking?

[dustybiker]

Good question. Private stories though.

[Zolly99999]

Define a sociopath...

[Bethany22]

Like you can't actually prove to people that they are deliberately trying to make you miserable, but they nevertheless do a lot of hurtful things just because they have more social power than you

[Zolly99999]

Ohhh ok... yes I knew / know lots of those. I distance myself from them

[LavLavLuv]

i avoid them at all costs

[Iron_Man]

Nothing I don’t think I’ve ever met one

[Userben]

İLEyes he abused me

[Alex8736]

A US president