Women are not nicer than men. That's just a stereotype. Agree or disagree?

[Anonymous]

Agree

Disagree

[lightbulb27]

it's more personality and parental training and trauma.

In general, I've found more difficult women at work than men. work with a group of women and you'll see caddy, backstabbing, emotional BS you may not enjoy. Men can be abusive in other ways, often in challenging ways and women backstabbing.. depending upon the woman, they are more indirect. Both can be nice or painful.

If you hear girls describe a girl as sweet... beware what is lurking. maybe she is... maybe she isn't!

A good girl/women will greatly enrich your life, but they are human beings and takes some learning to understand them and each one specifically their emotional needs, behaviors and beliefs... and how to communicate effectively.

You are wise to get educated so you can select well for you and have respect for others.

[JDavid25]

That's definitely not true.. Even though, I can talk to women a bit easier, I get treated with more respect from other men.. Sometimes women act like they are too good to even say thank you..

[JDavid25]

Thanks for MHO! 😁

[AmandaYVR]

Females used to be nicer, sweeter. I don't think that's as much the case anymore. They've changed.

Still, the most angry, vocal, openly antagonistic people are males. Females are much quieter and less volatile in terms of aggression. But they are often quietly judging others, not saying what they're really thinking about them.

[DEondeBeaumont]

I think their passivity hurts them the most, and they do not stand up for themselves in many situations. They go along with the crowd even though their actions are wrong.

They might not agree with something. Like when the nazi took over France, they became nazi for security so that the nazis wouldn't kill them. But when the nazi was defeated, they killed all the nazi men and shaved off the hair of the women who converted to nazi.

I think it is the passive behavior that is the issue. That is waiting for a man to do something for her rather than taking action for herself.

Men are more antagonistic. They are more assertive or aggressive because they stand up to the injustices in the world. Men standing up to the nazi might have been seen as antagonistic in the past, but now they are seen as heroes.

[AmandaYVR]

@DEondeBeaumont I agree, too passive. And too much anxiety about fitting in. Men are more independent. Often that comes with loneliness, but there's less conformity. Females seem to be built for social groups. Though there is always jostling and infighting.

I saw a documentary interviewing the last survivors of the Nazi regime, and the brainwashing seemed powerful. They regret what they did in retrospect, but did not seem to bear full blame of compromising their morals. Some of them believed the propaganda they were fed; others simply didn't want to die themselves. Not sure that life or death situations are the best/only measurement of compromising one's morals. Kind of like blaming a torture victim for succumbing.

Men stand up to injustices? On certain levels, in certain realms. Actually it is females who support social causes, and weak and disadvantaged individuals more. In polls (here but also elsewhere, globally), "Do you support?" is answered by far, more affirmatively by females. Men have had the protector role, and often done it well, but men today, especially, tend to have a 'fend for yourselves' attitude quite often. Still, not to take away from all the millions of men in security and law enforcement and emergency work. They are heroes and good people.

[AmandaYVR]

I believe a lot of social and emotional problems could be resolved by females being more direct.
As a silly side note... most Hallmark movies include this theme - a woman misinterprets something (often a man does, a love interest), and gets very upset, loses faith, blah blah, but when she finally confronts him and the situation, she finds his intentions were good. She misread. These stories, often written by men (because Hollywood is still dominated by men) seem to be trying to gently teach women to face things. It improves not just their lives, but that of those around them.
And I can attest to that. Sometimes bringing things to a head ends things. But endings are not all bad. And many times, you come to understand what each other was thinking, and can move beyond it, to a deeper level of understanding, and often connection.

I wish I could say that the anthropologists of old are still right, and females favour social cohesion. But there is constant evidence and examples of females not supporting others, and being just as competitive in many situations. They just go about it in far less direct ways.

I personally find men less cagey and more desirous of communicating and sharing. But it's difficult to know how much this can be credited to a general chemistry-type pull toward one another. A curiosity.

[Anonymous]

I get along with men more. At least men are upfront. With women they talk behind your back or they are just meaner in my opinion, I never get on with women all that much. Being friends with men is so much better. The only thing I don't like about men is that they get irritated/more impatient than women.

[Haha456]

men also tend to be more rude and uncaring.

[Pinay_ako]

Men are way nicer to me than some women. Some men however, get influenced by some spiteful and jealous women so they get mean. This is based on my personal experiences.

[AmandaYVR]

So true. Nicely, succinctly, summarized.

[Pinay_ako]

@AmandaYVR appreciate it 🥰

[jennifer_bloom]

Humble and compassionate woman are nice and proud and hostile woman are not.

[MCheetah]

Anyone who thinks women on average, are nicer than men, is either a simp or a soyboy who's never been in a high school before. This isn't even to say men are nicer, in general. Just less mean than women. Men will bully you and kick your ass. Women will get other women to bully you, and make you take your own life from it.

[RiseofArtemis]

Women in society are actually worse than men. They gossip around and are quite nasty to each other. Have you seen how they act with each other.

Men will get along and find solutions if there is a problem. Women on the other hand often will just keep doing the same stuff to each other never stopping.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Women will just get into a screaming and yelling match if there’s a problem

[Babygirl_S]

I agree that anyone can be rude regardless of their gender. The pattern I have noticed offline is it's always the ugly people who are mean to me and online usually WHITE people who don't have any profile picture of their own (so definitely super unattractive). Black people are a lot nicer to me contrary to the stereotypes against them that they're aggressive. No they're not. They are VERY CIVILISED unlike the ones who propagate bad things about them. I am a little perplexed because I thought white people were calm but not at all!
I can only imagine the plight of the minorities living around so many racists. For 1 white person who is friendly towards me there are roughly 4 that try to bring me down. SHAME ON YOU!

[WhiteBoyChill]

And I can only imagine how much of an embarrassment people in India consider you.

I mean it’s absolutely pathetic how you spend so much of your time deifying all these famous white guys on the internet that you’ve never even met before

[Babygirl_S]

The Indians are actually pretty chill about it and say nothing bad about my love for Henry Cavill. In fact they're supportive.
It's you RACIST WHITES who can't tolerate this. It is always some loser white girl or boy like you speaking against it. That is a consistent pattern.
Wake up racist! It's not the 18th century. I am FREE to like anyone and don't flatter yourself into thinking that you're also my dream guy because you're white.
I love only the ones who deserve it.

[Babygirl_S]

And if so much racism is inflicted upon me I can't even imagine how you treat darker Indian girls. Racism is IN YOUR VEINS. This proves the point that it's not the appearance of other races that is bad but your RACIST WHITE mind that creates flaws that don't exist.

[Babygirl_S]

I LOATHE YOU and will block you. It is surprising how many WHITE people have been blocked because they couldn't keep their diarrhoea filled racist mouth shut. Everyone knows your true nature. You would like to sell and buy slaves even today if you could.
You have a negative reaction to even me liking white male celebrities.
I love how open black guys are about being loved by any race and calm down because they have the BBC.

[RangerBlue22]

@babygirl_s please keep race out of this.

[Haha456]

Women can be nasty to each other but just cuz men dont gossip or talk shit about each other, it does not mean men are better. I have befriended both men and women over the years. Men tend to be more a lot more uncaring, ruder, brash, less empathetic, more likely to mock others, less sentimental over human bonds, more selfish and self minded rather than community minded.

Studies have also shown that females tend to be more compassionate than males

[Haha456]

Why do you think nursing, social work, counseling have been traditionally female dominated fields? Because women are more compassionate. Women are better suited for this type of work

[Asker]

The women are wonderful effect

[Haha456]

Both genders have their flaws. Women can be very mean , petty and vengeful. Men can be terrible too but just in a different way. The most cold hearted, insensitive friends that I've ever had were men. Most crimes and anti social behaviors are also committed by men. Both genders just express their nastiness in different ways. Just cuz women can be nasty, it doesn't mean men aren't nasty

But on average, when it comes to being caring and showing compassion for others. Women tend to be better than men at it

[Asker]

For children and animals i can agree women are more compassionate. But for men, they really don't give a shit about men's problems. Women have no empathy for men but that's just the way things are.

[Haha456]

Men are less petty and jealous but it doesn't mean theyre better than women in any way shape or form

[Asker]

Where did i say they're better? Men dont have halos or wings on their shoulders. But a lot of men are willing to admit they're assholes

[Haha456]

I dont think simply being an asshole thats the worst part. Worst part of is that men admit theyre assholes but they dont care. As if being an asshole is completely ok. The less you care, the more capable you are of doing terrible things to others

[Asker]

At least they're honest about it. You know what you're dealing with at the start. Its either that or fake ass nice people eventually showing their true colors

[Haha456]

it doesn't matter. Vast majority of people suffering from anti social personality disorders are men, which explains why they contribute to the vast majority of crime rates. Its the "I don't care" that makes men anti social. Anti social people do not care.

[Asker]

And society doesn't care about mens mental health. Its a joke to people and people even laugh about it. Men kill themselves a lot more than women do. Men aren't angels but they also aren't the bad people especially feminsim makes em out to be. But women are capable and do shitty things as well

[Haha456]

Men suicide more because men dont like to talk about their feelings to other men. On the other hand, women like to discuss feelings with other women

Studies have shown that men are also more prone to narcissim and anti social personality disorderz than women.

[Asker]

Men definitely feel a lot better telling other men their problems because a lot of women can be nasty and use his feelings against him in the future. And yes men are more prone to a lot of things. But what does that have to do with wonen not being nicer than men?

[Haha456]

men don't like to talk to other men about their feelings. men also do not tend to want to listen about other men's feelings. men tend to look for women to talk about their feelings. this is why men suicide more than women.

when a woman is physically abused, it is almost always by a man

[Asker]

Bruh in what world are men telling women their problems?

[Haha456]

its kind of a widely known concept amongst men that men never like to talk about their feelings with each other. as a result, a lot of them suffer in silence. so they resort to telling women about all their problems.

take a look around: vast majority of therapists, counselors, and psychologists are female.

[Asker]

That doesn't mean anything. Most teachers are females but that doesn't mean they're smarter than men

[Haha456]

most teachers are women because women are more patient and nurturing than men. women tend to dominate social work, counseling, therapy because women tend to like discussing about other people's vulnerabilities and feelings. You also need to be very understanding to do this line of work, which are qualities that men tend to lack.

[Asker]

That or women just choose these careers more than men. Men choose other things but that doesn't make men bad or assholes for not wanting to do the line of work women dominate in

[Haha456]

Men are bigger assholes. Just take a look at how they make up the vast majority of serial killers, bank robbers, rapists, pedophiles. Who is responsible for starting all the wars?

[Asker]

You're taking this very personal. Just because i said women aren't nice then men doesn't mean men are any better. But you now turned this conversation into a who's more evil and bad.

[Haha456]

you're the one who is constantly trying to make women look bad. well guess what? even if women have bad qualities, they're never gonna be as bad as men

[Asker]

Constantly? I haven't been on G@G in months. Barely got on again last night. But we get it men are evil and women are angels

[BlueScorpio]

Mm that's interesting, I always thought women were a lot nicer unless the guy is threatening or harassing them. My encounters with men have usually been nice or normal. I've never really seen women go out there way to be mean to men unless there's a reason.

[BlueScorpio]

Honestly I think men tend to be a bit more meaner cause of their nature to be dominant. Even men are all that nice to each other, just look at history. Men have been killing each other wince rhe dawn of time for power, money, land, and domination. Thats not to say there aren't women who haven't done the same but its mostly been men. But there are nice men and women and there are mean men and woman, it just really depends. I've dealt with both.

[MementoMori_]

I think women are nicer than men. It comes from their natural role as mothers.

BUT, I also think they are more naïve. And sometimes what sounds nice on the surface is in fact not nice. And because they are more naïve, they are more easily manipulated into supporting causes that are posing as nice but are not nice.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Just saw a documentary about two women who were jealous about her friend who was better looking. So they set up rumors that she slept with others which lead to her getting beaten up. Still not thinking she got enough the 2 lured her into a forest where they violently tied her up and drowned her. Later the 2 even fake-helped the parents of the victim and fake consoled them.

Now tell me women are nice than men...

[SeriouslyFunny00]

It varies on the individual. Gender has nothing to do with one's attitude.

[Asker]

True but society makes it out to look like women are the nicer sex. Women are just as capable as being shitty as men

[SeriouslyFunny00]

I agree.

[knallpilz]

It's possible that women like to be perceived as more polite (which some confuse with being nice, friendly or kind), more often, which is usually expressed via mannerisms. Maybe social conventions matter more to women than men.

[leahzrc]

Some women are nicer to women. Some women are meaner to women. Some men are nicer to men. Some men are meaner to men. Some women are nicer to men. Some women are meaner to men. Some men are nicer to women. Some men are meaner to women.

[420Rachel]

Nah. There's plenty of assholes of both genders. Therefore, there's also plenty of nice people of both genders. We're a mixed bag. The world is full of assholes and also good people. ✌️ It's up to you whether you want to be kind or not.

[boggboss]

I would say they are more agreeable that can come of as nicer

[Asker]

I concur

[Sonorous]

That & the fact that they're less powerful than men in average & since they carry babies, it makes many people have a bias towards them. A kind of gender halo effect.

[whirled_up_girl]

It really depends on the individual. I've met some men that are nicer than some of the women I know and I've met some women who are nicer than some of the men I know.

[Subarugirl]

That facts would suggest otherwise...

Who commit more violent crimes?

Sexual assault?

Initiate wars?

Commit more mass shootings?

Harassment?

[RandomGuy1032]

ain't nobody harrassing your ugly ass

[Asker]

Women are wonderful effect. Women do horrible shit as well but don't face any consequences for their actions

[annabananna]

Women do get sent to jail less often for being violent so the statistics may not be accurate.

[ThatSwede]

Women kill more children than men

[KrakenAttackin]

@Subarugirl Who destroys more families? Who is most responsible for violent abuse of children (here's a hint, it ain't men)? Who can't stand their own gender so much that they are in constant competition (even with their own children)?

[StrongMale]

@Subarugirl I am not angry at you for saying this. There is certainly some truth to it. But I think the question was more about social interaction than acts of violence. In social environments, which gender do you think more often interacts in a way that is nice, friendly and agreeable?

[SolitarySolace]

Agreed. Women are not nicer than men. Even though they are considered to be the nurturers. They’ve disregarded their roles and have become nasty and hateful. Accepting of things like satanism and would rather bring others down to build themselves up.

[Anonymous]

My personal experience, women are negative, rude and arrogant all the time with everyone. Women are arrogant even if they are poor. Jealousy thy name is women. Men are more mature, calm and nice. Men show anger only when it's necessary. I hate all the women in my family and friend's moms. I talk to their husbands / men. I have met only few good women in my life. I have met only few jealous men in my life.

[Opinion Owner]

* As an educated Indian man, I have met and seen many bad, stupid, rude and arrogant women in my life so I have decided to stay single for life. I can't spend my rest of my life with a bad women. When I find that sweet special girl, I will marry her. If you guys don't believe me, then you should make a social experiment or survey in Indian cities and villages. Usually people in small towns and villages in India are closed minded, narrow minded and rude. I have seen poor and worst women in small towns and villages.

[Anonymous]

Dating.. meeting girls is the worst experience in life. Also they are nasty and will talk lies behind your back to other men if they feel they no longer like you for any stupid shallow reason. Get on social media and ruin your life. They don't have healthy minds. But 1 in 1000 are nice, most healthy ones,, are taken.. sad...

[Anonymous]

Women are not at all nicer than men. Men are way more nicer. Since men are agressive , people get an impression that they are not nice. Women may look and behave nice outside but they behave terrible behind close doors. I have always seen two women giggling with each other and as soon as one left the other started bitching about her.

[ODC2112]

Women are nicer than men when they have to interact with men, not when they have to interact with other women.

If you want to see what a person is like, see how she interacts with people of her gender.

[Kiran_Yagami]

Women are not nicer than men, they just used to act nicer because it was polite. They don't even do that anymore.

[RangerBlue22]

Women are more “surface nice” but not for real nice.

[RangerBlue22]

Also I believe women are generally much more selfish than men due to evolutionary purposes. They might try to appear more selfless and nice for their image and reputation. But many women are much more ruthless.

In past history women were selfish for survival purposes and to increase the probability of protecting their offspring. Lots of these behaviors are no longer necessary in modern times but evolutionary behavior still impacts female decision making. Especially when it comes to dating.

[ericclayton]

Bullseye.

[lottiebannotie]

Gender doesn't decide this issue both can be good or bad though most good level headed guys have a strong mother if that counts towards a vote for women lol

[Summeroflove]

Yeah. I do agree. It’s a personal thing. Some women are mean. Some men are nice. And vice versa.

[AlphaMale1]

It depends on the person. Both can be nice and both can be world-class assholes.

[Vegasrunner]

I wasn't even aware that that was a stereotype. Seems like common sense men would be nicer, as consequences are much more severe for a mean man vs a mean woman.

[XXblack88]

From my experience I find men are nicer then women. Not to say I haven't meant nice women.

[FilmGuy93]

You are definitely correct. Women are nowhere near as nice as they think.

[WhiteBoyChill]

They’re definitely nicer to your face but deep down I think they’re a lot more sinister. I mean with most guys there isn’t all this colluding against eachother stuff and it’s just “whatever bro”

[Anonymous]

In general men are nicer to women than women are to men AND to other women.

[Asker]

That's actually pretty damn true

[Jackblue]

Women will probably tease and taunt you more, but men are more likely to put a knife in your chest.

[ChrissyChriss]

Disagree because niceness depends on the person, not their gender or ethnicity!

[Asker]

Exactly. But society likes to instill this belief that women are the nicer sex

[dragoblack]

Though men can be assholes... women can be vindictive, manipulative, spiteful, and hold a grudge for years, which is far worse.

[Haha456]

Men tend to be more anti social evidenced by the way they commit vast majority of societies crimes

[Ironic_Method]

I feel like I'm biased. Women have always treated me better on average than men.

[KostasKouvalis]

I think they're about the same. Women are more compassionate though

[VRCXZ]

Compassionate my ass! Women are far more cruel than men and are willing to falsely accuse men they don't like of sexual misconduct even though said men didn't even try to do any of it in the first place.

[KostasKouvalis]

@VRCXZ Keyword being "men they don't like". But if they like you they are extremely compassionate

[Anonymous]

Yeah, the first 21 seconds here are pretty telling.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/9PZim_zdpHs

[red324]

Women are cunts. They'll be nice if they think you're hot or you have something they want.

[Grubhub]

I believe it depends on the person but yeah lots of women are mean lots are nice

[TonightYouu]

Women aren’t nicer they just get treated better because they aren’t seen as a threat

[Headstrongcrazylover]

I think it has nothing to do with gender, every person is different.

[dolemite89]

definitely, there’s some quote that women are only nice to small children and animals 😂

[Khftkn]

Most women these days are actually mean. But there’s some nice women for sure

[Mollynotgemma]

Men are nicer in general until pushed by a woman

[Asker]

Damn

[Anonymous]

If a man isn't being nice its because someone wasn't nice to him

[sheenagwapa]

i am a very nice girl except when you fuck me up

[Lina26]

I agree, sometimes we can be very mean.

[Anonymous]

In middle school girls were kinda to me unless I had a crush on them.

[Moose304]

There is no difference!

[BJP21]

Disagree... Guys can be assholes too.

[Asker]

I know they can and they are. But society instills this belief that women are the nicer sex which isn't true

[Pohjolan]

No woman has tried to beat me up.

[rienna888]

I think they’re equally as mean.

[Anonymous]

It has nothing to do with genders.

[msc545]

Women are sneakier, not nicer.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Well, how many of them are fake?

[Anonymous]

Meh, I agree to disagree.

[Anonymous]

Not Asian women. They are nasty

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 based on your personal experience?

[KrakenAttackin]

Absolutely agree.

[Calenderagressive]

Actually depends lol

[Anonymous]

💯 agree!