He is a bad communicator, gives me the silent treatment when he’s upset, is inconsistent with texting and calling. Leaves me hanging sometimes without communication.
I have gotten upset twice and said things I didn’t mean that hurt him ( when he ignored me I got upset and claimed he used me for sex, also I told him I didn’t want to talk to him anymore). I would also repost things on Instagram that went along with how I was feeling. He didn’t like that. I try to apologize, talk to him, and fix my behavior, but he doesn’t like to talk about it and he doesn’t try he just pushes me away. Should I just let him go? Or is he right to do that?
You don't put your relationship issues on Instagram, He certainly has a reason to be pissed. The rest is just normal your dating a guy after all, so all your issues is that you don't understand men, not because he is doing something bad. Men are irregular when we message and you can certainly expect silence if you piss us off. It is something you need to learn to live with.
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Wow, this sounds a little volatile. Do you guys see a marriage counselor by chance?
He seems to try to get what he wants through actions, rather than words, and so far it's working for him. Try the silent treatment on him and see what happens
That would be frustrating to me. You want to live with someone, that isn’t the best match, for the rest of your life?
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You should normally only apologize if you are at fault
Let him go. Silent treatment as a punishment is a form of emotional abuse actually and sign of a toxic person.
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Keep trying but he also needs to be held accountable when he makes mistakes he also should admit it and make corrections
Let him go maybe things will get better later and the. He'll get it.
No, you should dump him and date an adult.
Time to let him go and move on.
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