Do people know you can't live your whole life out of just lust/sex?

[Anonymous]

Lust/sex (threesomes, living with different gfs but then breaking up with all of them, friends with benefits, boody calls, etc) has eventually replaced commitment. While it's all fun, you feel pleasure and keeps you away from responsibilities when you're very young, that's not a strong foundation in the long-run. We're all going to age eventually.

That's like feeding yourself chocolate, cup noodle microwavable soup and more greasy/junk food. You've just fed yourself with tons of enjoyable meals that's delicious and you feel pleasure too but guess what, it's tons of garbage. Same with thing with sex/lust taking the whole cake and replacing commitment.

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Both sex replacing commitment and junk food are short-lived without any real purpose or goals. Both can become an addition if too much.

[MrOracle]

Plenty of men can live into old age doing this - it's women who really can't. I'm not RECOMMENDING it to either, but if you don't realize that men can do this successfully, into their 60s in some cases and even older in rare cases, you haven't been paying attention.

Hugh Hefner was doing it into his 90s. With 22-year-olds. Obviously a very rare exception - hardly the norm - but it's possible. But guys doing it into their 60s? Way more common than you probably realize, especially if they have money and a high lifestyle.

[Asker]

But the ideal norm would be forming a family, having kids, becoming grandparents and them dying of old age. If every single men on earth started having sex forever with 20 year-old women, then the population goes down, there isn't anymore families and those young women are going to age anyway.

[Asker]

Several members in my family (males) between 30-40 years old have actually recently expressed having desires to form a family. They don't seem to want to forever screw 20 year-olds all the way until their deaths. So that rare exception of the 90 year-old man screwing 22 year-olds can't be the norm for most men.

[MrOracle]

Make no mistake: I'm not saying this is a good idea (it isn't), or that I'm endorsing it (I'm not). I'm simply pointing out that it's definitely POSSIBLE for some men to do.

Your male family members are smart to be considering families, though in my opinion they should have been thinking about at closer to 25 than 30. Still, they don't have a biological clock the same way women do, so it's less of a concern (but still a concern) that they're a bit older.

[DannyUk2017]

They don't sadly... These days they go only for drug/drunk sexed/orgy parties, and next day ir down the line they start regreting it, but hey these are today's and generation and generations to come 🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

Yes it's a sad generation we're all living in. All those things you just mentioned are all short-lived just like chocolates and KFC.

[DannyUk2017]

Yup, ur reply makes perfect sense...👏👏👏

[dustybiker]

It’s living. People live their lives the way they choose.

[bamesjond0069]

When there is no healthy food available junk food is better than starving. When there are no marriagable women available, casual sex is better than going without.

Men react to the environment and we just do what makes sense.

[spartan55]

So doing those things when you are younger and then growing out of them isn't okay?

[Anonymous]

Do people know that no one knows how much life they gonna live? Than what's the point of wasting time on building foundation. ? Keep fucking new girls. Is best way to live.

[Asker]

Building foundating is the equivalent of filling your body with nutrients, healthy meals, doing exercises and getting enough sleep. It works out in the long-run vs just living in the moment without any real goals

[Opinion Owner]

Oh on this I'm 100% agree with you need healthy lifestyle...

I thought you're talking about LDR lol sorry.

[Anonymous]

Wanna bet? Monks can do it and so can ordinary people.

[Asker]

Doing it sometimes (as long as it's not the whole cake) with the foundation establiahed Is different. Becoming too focused and obsessed with sex to the point you literally put it on the pedestal isn't ok.

[NathanDavis]

I do fill myself with tacos, though...

[Asker]

Every single day?

[NathanDavis]

nope... more like once a week

[Asker]

Then there is nothing wrong with it. Things become an addition when it's every single day or if that's all you do or eat... then it's bad.

[moosesixty]

Whoever told you that is a virgin

[Asker]

So someone that has orgies often, collects girlfriend after girlfriend (dumping them all at the end) without any real purpose but to enjoy the moment and puts it on a pedestal... all short lived Is how one Is suppose to spend the rest of their luces?