Does anyone have a very affectionate boyfriend?

[sunny22721]

my boyfriend is very loving and affectionate. he hugs everyone and says “i love you”. he is very nice and cares a lot for people. we are long distance so i’ve never really seen him with friends, just with family, until i went to visit him this weekend at school. So i wasn’t used to his way of being with them. Our relationship and sex life (sorry) is very good, we don’t have any problem, it’s great and you can see we want each other in every way. We went to a club and we were a bit drunk and we were all dancing. At some point he went forehead against forehead with his friend while dancing for a few second, while still holding my hand and dancing with me and then pulled me into that. And on our way back he jokingly hold both of our hands for a few seconds nothing more. They are often together because of the same class times. I told him he becomes really passionate when drunk and told him about those two things he did. He said “i have love for the ones i love…you, friends, family”. His friend isn’t really like him, doesn’t want physical touch (he has a girlfriend and also talked to many girls than night). While physical touch is one of my boyfriend love languages. I don’t know, it made me a bit nervous. Am i overreacting?

[boggboss]

I assuming he is cheating I would say yes as he was willing to do it infront of you so I'm pretty sure to him it meant nothing

[sunny22721]

What did it mean nothing?

[boggboss]

Its just how he is it didn't mean anything romantic doing that with his friends

[boggboss]

I just don't see how you would be able to bring it up without it coming off as u saying he is going to cheat which would cause issues and show u don't trust him

[sunny22721]

no i’m just getting a bit anxious because his friend is a guy

[boggboss]

Anxious about what

[sunny22721]

i don’t know. i know he loves me and it’s just his way of showing affection but it was weird to see that

[boggboss]

OK so it's weird there is nothing to be anxious about unless u think he would cheat so work out if u trust him or not and go from there

[sunny22721]

i trust him and i know he would never cheat on me. as i said it was just weird to see him so close with a guy. his other friends are really affectionate too, they tell me he hugs them all the time because it’s just how he is

[boggboss]

So if that's just how he is what's there to get anxious over again I get u might find it weird but mwh

[sunny22721]

i don’t know, you’re right

[Anonymous]

You are overreacting, and thinking to much about this.