How do you express your feelings without ruining a friendship?

[Anonymous]

So there’s a guy I have caught feelings for. I’m not sure if he feels the same … I’ve been moved out of the department I used to work in alongside him to next door, I miss him and also have feelings for him. We have never exchanged numbers or anything, how do I express how I feel without ruining our friendship?

[boggboss]

Its a hard one as if he dont feel the same there is no waybto really not have it effect your friendship although it sounds more like work friends then friends

[Asker]

It is a hard one … but there’s been a lot that indicates he possibly feels something for me too … x

[boggboss]

So good luck

[Midgetmcwidget]

Gosh you sound like Zak

[Asker]

Zak?

[Midgetmcwidget]

Yea he asked me on a date Friday night.