Would you think your SO would be disconnected if this happened?

[Havthrills]

Imagine this. You and your SO go away for a couple nights. You get a nice hotel room and spend the extra $300 or so for the "romantic package." The package includes champagne, chocolates, dinner and breakfast for two. When your SO is surprised with the package, SO decides for you to meet friends at a restaurant. So dinner package part wasted. The bed is huge. SO curls up near the far end facing away and goes to sleep. Next morning, you two meet the friends for breakfast so breakfast package wasted. Then all day hang out with the friends walking a strip just window shopping. You try to hold SO's hand, failed as he/she moves away. You try many time to to put your arm around SO, fail again. Also, you run your hand across your SO's butt teasingly and get no reaction. Then that night, SO complains for a while that you tried nothing to touch him/her. You explain what you did and the reply "I didn't notice."

To add, the last few times you and SO have sex, it was more of "get this over with" type of feeling. Quick and then on to the rest of the day.

[NathanDavis]

I just cannot imagine myself being that guy...

so passive and careless... ( and I won't even mention the cheap romantic hotel experience lmfao)

if I meant those days to be special for the both of us, then there is NO way I would just stay quiet and let ALL of that happen without me saying ANY word whatsoever for two or three days straight...

I would simply communicate and speak with her, as one should do in relationships...

[AviatorTom]

That couple has lost intimacy. They either need to work together to get it back, or go their separate ways.

[menina]

Yes. I would assume that he was bothered by me or that he wanted me to stay away. It would be weird.

[Sour-rose]

Yeah, I'm done with this shi. It ain't going well and it's time to dip. Now. :)

[Dina_Melissa19]

There’s nothing like love between the couples maybe it’s a one sided love I guess. The guy should assume he’s single and move on with his life , Your happiness matters most

[LazerBean]

Probably, but he would never do that so it's pretty irrelevant

[spartan55]

Checked out, done whatever you want to call it.

[Agape93]

Yeap and he'd be single