If you are separated from your SO, Would you mind your SO making a fool of themselves?

[kitty71]

I mean legally you are not divorced yet and you had been separated for about 1 yr now, you both share a daughter. The guy seems either he is taking the separation well and with maturity or he is not taking it well and he is behaving like a complete immature chid. I have a friend couple who both got separated last year. They both belong to a sport discipline team so when they go training they have to run inot each other unfortunately, they hardly even speak while training, each one is apart from the other one, sometimes they ahve to take their daughter with to stay with them while training and even so most of the time neither one cross a word to the other one.

The guy is 52 years old, m the wife is 40. The husband had always been a teaser and a joker pranker man all his life and im sure the ex knows he is like that, and being like that she married him. Anyway now that both of them are lets say free from each other, the guy I dont know if he is taking things well with maturity or oh boy the separation had hit him hard. Now that he is separated he is just acting like a kid, making pranks to all of the memebrs of this sports team (Im in that team), he is like a kid. SOmetimes he looks ridiculous maybe he wants to draw attention to himself like saying "hey im not suffering from this separation, let me beahve like a fool kid and do stupid stuff". The ex wife on the other hand do not even pay attention to her ex, stupid and ridiculous things he does, she just ignore them and watch and stay quiet.

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Since both of them are in the same sports team they share a Whatassp group along with other team members (including me). In this Whatassp group, the husband sometiems sends photos and videos so so stupid and ridiculous about himself or other stuff that it makes me cringe!! He is trying to draw attention and be this funny guy to all the team!! And then I remember that the ex wife is also in the same group seeing all the stupid and non sense things her ex sends over the Whatassp group.

[USMC-Crossroads]

I think it'd be like this for me in his situation; Since I'm not a piece of shit, I wouldn't get actual pleasure at her misfortune... However, He and I are still human, so if she had a little embarrassment coming for acting a certain way, then of course, having a laugh at her expense is completely normal - given how much our moods change day to day. That being said, I would NEVER go out of my way to humiliate her on some grand scale, and certainly wouldn't involve her children... I wouldn't every even let kids see me laugh at their mother's goof-up. Even if she was a REAL cunt and clearly deserved some comeuppance, I wouldn't enjoy it or rub it in, because I firmly believe that the best revenge is simply living well - So her seeing me only being compassionate towards her would definitely piss her off more than me just reveling in her misery.

I hope I understood the situation right... Does this answer make sense?

[AviatorTom]

When my then-wife and I were separated, it didn't matter what each of us did, we were on the road to an amicable divorce after 20+ years of marriage.

[ALPHABLACK]

Too long of a wall of text , I didn't read just the question. No I won't mind if I see my soon to be ex wife getting murdered I would just stand back enjoy the show and even clap at the end

[AimeeKyle]

Sounds like he showing off for attention…. It will most likely pass over time, but you never know.

[Guardian45]

He sounds like a dumbass. I feel sorry for her.

[kitty71]

So he sounds childish right?

[Guardian45]

Yup!

[pizzalovershouse]

You do what works for you