My mom and my friend are being loud what do I say?

[Baseballgem4for4]

This is getting ridiculous. My mom and one of my good friends just started dating. They’ve really only been on 2 dates. Then on Monday I got home & could hear them and they were being loud moaning bed noises like the whole thing. I didn’t say anything because they didn’t know I had come home. But it’s happening right now I’ve been in my room studying for a mid term and working on a poli sci paper 📝 and I didn’t even know my buddy had come over. I looked outside and saw his car and now they are being super loud again!!! Moaning I can hear from my room, bed noises, everything!!! I’m not mad that they are seeing each other, but this is getting ridiculous? What do I say? do I say something to my mom or my friend. I’m also disappointed in my mom a little bit. She raised me not to sleep around! To be in a committed relationship, in love & then worry about bedroom business. They made out in my kitchen like 2 weeks ago and have been on 2 dates. 1 was to a restaurant that’s in a hotel and my mom said they were getting a room because she would be tired and too late to drive home. They prob did it then too! But they’ve been on 2 dates and go right to the bedroom? And just before you ask my mom is 39 my Buddy is 21

[Fireguy17]

let her know, she may not realize it.
An ex-girlfriend of mine had a roommate whose bed squeaked, so one night I left a can of WD40 outside her door.
She wasn't amused but got the point.

[Baseballgem4for4]

If a girl is really into and really enjoying the sex cab she really control the moaning. The bed squeaking is manageable it’s my moms moaning that’s over the top. It’s LOUD I can hear everything like it sounds like it’s my ear.

[msc545]

Did she use it?

[Fireguy17]

And once you hear it you can't unhear it.
Might be best to let her know that the walls are kind of thin. Maybe add some humor to it.
It might not be a fun conversation for either one of you.

[andreasderjuengere]

Put your earphones on and turn up the music.

Let them be horny - it's THEIR life :)

[msc545]

Ask them to have quieter sex.

[Baseballgem4for4]

Which one my mom or my friend? Honestly it’s been 2 dates in this a little soon for bedroom stuff? This is not how she raised me

[msc545]

both. Other than that, they will have sex whether you like it or approve of it or not.

[Baseballgem4for4]

They’re still going at it. Should I knock and the door and tell ‘em to keep it down

[msc545]

NO! Wait until you can talk to them when they are not busy.

[Baseballgem4for4]

Ok! How do I bring it just tell them I can hear them like I can hear what’s going on in the bedroom and can you be quiet about it

[Baseballgem4for4]

Ok I think they’re finally done

[msc545]

Good. Take your mom aside and tell her they need to be quieter since you can hear them and it's a distraction for you.

[Baseballgem4for4]

I was gonna tell my friend instead of my mom it’s easier to talk to my Buddy about loud sex than my mom ya know? But it didn’t really work, Yesterday when he was leaving he gave my mom a hug&kiss when they were kissing he put his hand on her butt but like slid his hands down the back of her pants. Then he went to dap me up when he did, I was like don’t give me that hand I don’t know where it was! did you put have it down my moms panties? He said nah and we laughed & dapped it out. He laughed and said your mom is wearing a thong so the hand was on her cheeks. I was like wtf dude... I walked with him to his car and was gonna tell him to try and keep it down I said I was studying and you guys were super loud. He goes “bro I know your mom was going nuts!” “We’re really sexually compatible best sex I’ve had” and “your mom can’t get enough!” I was totally embarrassed at that point and was like forget it I’ll bring it up to my mom. Which I will today!! First isn’t that kinda like being a jerk and bragging? Also should I tell my mom that he’s bragging about how good the sex is? Do you think it’s just best to tell only my mom about keeping it down she’s the one moaning like crazy!! And my friend is kinda being a jerk about it?

[msc545]

Just talk to your mom about this and stop messing around.

[Baseballgem4for4]

She’ll be home in a little bit should I mention that my friend is bragging about how good the sex is too like he’s airing their private business or just don’t mention that and just ask her to keep it down?

[msc545]

Just ask her to keep it down and leave it at that.

[Baseballgem4for4]

Cool Imma ask her now I’ll let you know how it goes. I’m just going to be like I can hear you moaning and doing bedroom stuff can you please be quieter it’s distracting

[msc545]

ok...

[Baseballgem4for4]

Oh shoot lol I forgot to let you know how it went lol. I just said to my mom when my friend was over both Monday and Wednesday I heard you moaning it’s really loud and like the bed squeaking it’s districting… She laughed and said I Get it you want us to keep it down? I was like yea I can hear everything. She laughed again and said we’re enjoying ourselves. He’s coming over tomorrow and will probably be here most of the weekend we’ll likely be spending a lotta time in the bedroom I will try to keep it quieter for you. Thank you for coming to me… I think that went well, right?

[msc545]

Sounds good. Let's see if they really are less noisy.

[Baseballgem4for4]

I’m guessing we’ll find out tomorrow. My dad passed right before my sr year and after HS since it’s just my mom and she sold the house and we downsized to a smaller house. So the house is small and you can literally hear everything. Like there’s not a ton of room to go to

[msc545]

Maybe a hotel?

[Baseballgem4for4]

For me of for them? Lol I don’t have money to get a hotel like that. If they’re going to be doing it every day he’s over. My mom said spend a lot of time in the bedroom. That sounds like she plans on doing it multiple times tomorrow abd this weekend right? I can get a hotel everytime they wanna go in the bedroom especially if their going to be doing it a couple times a day. They got the hotel after their first date my mom said just because they were tired and it was too late to drive. Do you think they did it after the first date?

[msc545]

Tell your Mom you want her to pay for a hotel for you each time he is coming over.

[Baseballgem4for4]

Yea well that’s not gonna happen lol that’s so much money

[msc545]

Of course, it won't happen but that is not the point. The point is the effect of asking.

[Baseballgem4for4]

Ok got cha

[msc545]

Results?

[Baseballgem4for4]

She already went to bed for the day I’ll say it tomorrow

[msc545]

I m thinking you are trolling