Whats the difference between someone being toxic and someone else being toxic?

[anon1903]

Her professor isn't technically wrong.

[Agape93]

That's not toxic, that's cold rationalism. I wouldn't pay hundreds of dollars and take time off work, just to visit someone else's parent before they die.

[anon1903]

Exactly what I'm talking about!!

[Agape93]

Yeap. Guy may think it's harsh, it's not. It would be a bit harsh if she said that she hopes the mother in law dies faster so she won't have to go, but that's not what happened here. Some people are sentimental over the dumbest things.

[anon1903]

Yep!

[normalice]

If one person is toxic then everyone they come in contact with is also toxic. That's what being toxic means. The only antidote is organizing against it - an intervention, if you will. Or just cut them off, but that's making it someone else's problem.

[Guy13]

That’s harsh…

[anon1903]

Harsh but not toxic amirite?

[Guy13]

She’s like that with family she will be worse with “friends”…if she can actually make friends.

[anon1903]

She just stated a fact lmao

[Guy13]

Alright 🤷🏻‍♂️

[NathanDavis]

perception makes the difference

[pizzalovershouse]

They way they word things

[Debbie14217]

no idea sorry