Is it necessarily a red flag if someone leaves you on read for over a day?

[Anonymous]

[Guy13]

Yes as that’s the definition of Self absorbed..

[Anonymous]

Nope. Have a little patience.

[Asker]

I get it if someone doesn’t respond for a day or longer- like we’ve got lives i get it. But I got the notification that’s he’s opened and read the message and it’s been two days. Isn’t that a red flag that he can open the message but not have the respect to take five seconds and respond especially when he is still active on the app? I think it’s nothing with patience

[Opinion Owner]

Two days since he read the message? Depending what you said he might be mulling what he wants to say back. Women judge EVERYTHING a guy does. Even the way he does it. Could it be possible it's a red flag, yeah. But you're a woman to, and I also have to take that into account.

[Opinion Owner]

I had a woman on here send me a message then get mad at me because I sent her a message asking her a question. She responded back with an answer. And ok, I had my answer. But then I wake up the next day and she's mad because I didn't respond back to her. How was I supposed to KNOW she wanted me to respond again. You see what I'm saying? Is it possible he's ignoring you? Yeah. But it's also just as likely he doesn't even know you want a response depending on what you Saif.

[In_Trance]

depends on the circumstance