Finally someone said this! This is true af! You're loyal, so what?

[Anonymous]

Be careful of the nice people 🤧

[MCheetah]

Okay. F*ck you, then. I'll start cheating then. Or better yet, go find someone else and not waste my time on your trashy ass.

I'm so sick of this "modern women" trope of thinking good personality traits are supposed to be "default" and take them for granted. This started with the whole "just because you're nice doesn't make you a good partner" crap ten years ago. "Nice is the default." Not with me it ain't. I'd then immediately bitch slap after saying that.

Loyalty? Decency? Being a good person? Nah, that's "what you're supposed to do." Then she ends up getting with a guy who physically abuses her and thinks we're supposed to care, at that point. You made your own bed. Now get slapped in it, since you like that kinda stuff.

Who TF thinks loyalty is something that goes with controlling, abusive, aggression, and other "toxic" traits, anyway? They don't. Whoever said this must not have ANY real world life experience dating anyone. Nine times out of ten, a scumbag partner ISN'T going to be loyal to you anyway. That's what's so retarded about this post. It's talking down on actual positive traits someone can have, assuming bad people have such traits, to begin with.

[Asker]

It's not only women😑

[MCheetah]

That doesn't negate the fact that the post is crapping on people for having positive traits for no reason, despite most scummy people not having such traits.

[FilmGuy93]

I agree. I've heard a lot of people say this sort of thing over the years. It's very true! Not being an actively bad person does not make you deserving of prizes. lol It's like expecting your date to want to sleep with you, just because you took a shower

[Kori1236]

Finally? That should be common knowledge. Expecting you partner not to cheat should be the default. But just because someone doesn’t cheat doesn’t mean they’re a good person; it just means they didn’t destroy trust in that way. Everyone has baggage and everyone has red flags and undesirable traits. How one deals with those red flags and undesirable traits depend on the investment into the other person.

[Asker]

They barely know this thing and hard to talk people who doesn't have a common knowledge about this🤷‍♀️

[Asker]

If you notice on social media they often post " good people without including this thing" which is that's the reality 🤷‍♀️

[Sorrento-Sun]

That's so true.

I used to date a guy who was fericly loyal, but he had the traits of a covert narcissist. He was extremely toxic , controlling and manipulative. He played mind games all the time. So loyalty alone doesn't make sone a good person or "good catch".

[Passing_by]

Sounds almost like my last relationship. Well put!

[Asker]

I hope you're doing well

[Passing_by]

Much better, thank you 😊

[boggboss]

I'm suprised that needs to be said and is a thing its the same with just being nice that should be expected not a quality why someone picks u

[Ms_Facesitter]

Finally? It should be common sense. Not cheating is a basic rule but it's not the only rule.

[scooogy]

Neglect can hurt too though

[Asker]

There some people are blind. For them if their partner is loyal that's enough

[Ms_Facesitter]

An loyal Abuser is still a bad partner :(
I think it has been said before but the blind people don't listen.

[Asker]

Indeed

[NerdInDenial]

No one really just says I'm loyal and that's it. Of course, there are other characteristics we desire in a partner but loyalty is in the top 3.

[RavVid]

Loyal is the basic minimum but doesn't mean you are adding value to your partners life.

[Noahzaid]

This guy is asking for an angel and in the end, he would be the one cheating.

[MCheetah]

Yes. Also known as hypocrisy. The most paranoid people are that way because they know how easily THEY would cheat.

[Guy13]

Dump it and move on ‼️

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Terrific. Now the larger and more dangerous lies must be Lifty Ante Veil

[KrakenAttackin]

So go find Chad Thundercock.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Really never needed to be said.

[Anonymous]

This jerkoff has his head up his ass

[Anonymous]

Duh!