How to feel less lonely in a relationship?

artsy_dragon

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Focus on what you bring to the relationship to keep it new and alive rather than what the other person should be doing. We can wait for life to invite us in, or we can be active participants in our relationship. If you are an active partner, yet still lonely, then you probably chose the wrong partner. Don't keep investing in a losing cause.

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FilmGuy93 Follow
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Identify the kind of attention you want and need from a partner and pursue that.

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Katebfun Follow
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I don't have an answer for you. I was the most alone and lonley in relationships that should of ended. Maybe talk to your partner and see what you can do together.

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WhitneySnow Follow
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Talk to your partner more. also keep in touch with friends.

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Desconhecida Follow
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You're not supposed to feel this way.

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- artsy_dragon
  
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  I am not?
  
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- Desconhecida
  
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  There's nothing worse than feeling alone with someone by your side. It's a red flag.
  
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- artsy_dragon
  
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  True 😕
  
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- Desconhecida
  
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  Ask yourself what's lacking in the relationship besides communication - is your partner aware of your feelings? Open up to him and see what his response will be like. Good luck.
  
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- artsy_dragon
  
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  Thanks
  
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qwert1234 Follow
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First, check on why you are feeling this way. Is your partner not appreciating you enough? Not enough time together? Lack/less communication than usual?
My ex and I are not compatible in terms of this. I can go for days without talking to her, but she wants to talk daily. Every time I don't show too much interest on talking, I feel she gets a bit lonely.

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Chris_675 Follow
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Spend more time together, interact more with each other, and communicate your needs to him.

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- artsy_dragon
  
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  Okay thanks
  
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- Chris_675
  
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  You're welcome.
  I hope it works out for you because I even felt lonely sometimes while laying next to my ex-wife. she wasn't home enough and when she was she would sleep a lot. She didn't want to change and sometimes the relationship is just too broken to fix.
  
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- artsy_dragon
  
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  I'm sorry
  
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- Chris_675
  
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  Thanks for your support.
  What's going on in your relationship that you're feeling lonely?
  
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- artsy_dragon
  
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  Just issues
  
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- Chris_675
  
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  To be honest 23 is kind of young to be feeling lonely in the relationship. My ex and I had been together for like 14 years before we drifted apart. You guys should still be crazy in love, or fighting, anything but lonely.
  
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- Chris_675
  
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  Text him to get over there and hold you now.
  
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- artsy_dragon
  
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  We live together. He is asleep
  
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- Chris_675
  
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  I hear you, that's when I felt lonely too. She wanted me to hold her, but she was asleep and I was just laying there staring off into space frustrated that she wasn't making time for me anymore.
  
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- artsy_dragon
  
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  I'm sorry that happened
  
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AndrésC64 Follow
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I guess it would depend on how the loneliness manifests. Is it living / being together and to not communicating? Is it not being together? If it's the former, then I think communication is the only way to bring you closer. If you can't communicate, I don't know how you can be close.

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Be in a relationship with a person who actually wants to spend most or all of their time with you.

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- TheSpaceGnome
  
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  I was being serious.
  
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- artsy_dragon
  
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  I can't afford my rent by myself. I have no where else to live
  
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- TheSpaceGnome
  
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  😧 you can't stay with a person just for housing reasons!
  
  Do you have low income subsidized housing in your area?
  
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- artsy_dragon
  
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  I live in a capital city. My work and university is here I simply can't move to another area. Otherwise I would do too much travel
  
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- TheSpaceGnome
  
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  I wish I could offer a better suggestion.. that kind of situation really should not happen to people :l
  
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- artsy_dragon
  
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  It happens to everyone at some point
  
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FireGodGoesSeeknFire Follow
Xper 4 Age: 47 , mho 33%

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You have to say more here about what's going on and why you feel lovely with your partner.

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FunnyGiy Follow
Xper 4 Age: 23

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You need to communicate with your partner about your wants and needs and if you need more attention.

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Anonymous
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Are you sure you're in the right relationship?

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- artsy_dragon
  
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  I think so yeah
  
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SlothySlob Follow
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Find someone who wants to be in a relationship with you.

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BloodCursedDeviant Follow
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Having a hobby and just being busy helps. If anything…you can always communicate with your partner about it.

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Mtbgirl Follow
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Why do you feel lonely?

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- artsy_dragon
  
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  I just do. We work night patterns. When I am at university he sleeps boring during the day. We see each other a lot or don't if that makes sense
  
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BJP21 Follow
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He isn't paying attention to you?

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- artsy_dragon
  
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  Not really
  
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Anonymous
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Pick the right guy.

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Agape93 Follow
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Get a better partner

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cootjuhh Follow
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mastrubate

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- artsy_dragon
  
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  🤣🤣🤣
  
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- cootjuhh
  
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  it works 😉
  
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In_Trance Follow
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talk

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Change the partner

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