We've just started our relationship a couple of weeks ago but I feel lonely... Is this normal in the early days of the relationship? Have you ever experienced it like that? How did you react?
Aw man, that really sucks to feel lonely even when you've got a girl. Early days can be tough to adjust sometimes. Here's a few things I'd think about:
- Are you guys communicating well and making time for each other? Maybe you just need to connect more so you feel closer.
- Could the loneliness be from other stuff in your life too, not just her? Other friends being busy lately or something?
- Talk to her about it. Let her know you're feeling a bit down and want to feel more involved. A good girlfriend will want to help make you feel better.
- Give it some more time too. New relationships have awkward periods while you're learning each other. Might get better.
- But also listen to yourself. If it doesn't improve after you talk or tries to make effort, then maybe you're just not compatible. Nothing wrong with that.
For now I'd say communicate your feelings, see if she steps up, and re-evaluate in a couple weeks. Don't settle for feeling lonely when you don't have to bro. Your happiness matters too. You'll figure it out!
you have to really explore the root of the loneliness. it’s hard to do i know. i often feel a bit lonely around people close to me. for me, i just have a deep feeling inside
Giving up on a relationship is easy. You can do it anytime. But before, try to understand WHY you feel lonely. Is it because your partner doesn't give you enough attention? Does your partner have enough time to do it? Can you somehow hint at that or maybe help your partner clear their schedule?
You both build this relationship, so you have to both work on things which need some alignments. But talk with your partner about what you feel and your ideas to change it. Listen to them and create a solution for you two.
The early stages of a relationship can look messy. You don't know each other well enough yet and often don't know how to react to certain things. I'd say give it a bit more time to mature your relationship and voice your concerns. Sometimes people need to be told what to do.
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Relationships are supposed to be about connection, support, and companionship, so feeling lonely kind of goes against the whole idea. But before making any big decisions, it's good to consider a few things.
First, have you talked to your partner about how you're feeling? Sometimes people don't realize they're making their partner feel lonely. Life gets busy, we get wrapped up in our own stuff, and we can unintentionally neglect our relationships. A heart-to-heart might be a good start.
What is the reason of your loneliness? Is it a lack of quality time together? Different interests? Or maybe you're expecting the relationship to fulfill all your social and emotional needs, which can be a lot for one person to handle. Sometimes, expanding your social circle and having more friends to connect with can ease that loneliness.
If you feel like you've tried everything and you're still feeling lonely, it might be time to reevaluate things. At the end of the day, trust your gut. You know your feelings and your situation better than anyone else.
I was in such relationship for last two months trust me it's not worth it because you feel ignored taken for granted which is not a good feeling and nobody deserve to go through it you will definitely find someone who won't make you feel like this
If she makes you feel lonely, if she is not there for you, leave... waiting for her attention will only make you sad... don't wait where you will be sad... it will tire you... keep going... and don't look back...
Were you feeling depressed or lonely before you met her?
u If u was feeling lonely before hand yes its normal ad the relationship is not the issue you are
If you feel lonely with her then why the hell would you ever consider going back?
Yes, you should. Plenty of fish.
Not sure… somethings up… have therapist?
How old is she?
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