Girlfriend mood swings?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend acted like she was not interested in me anymore, she told me she was not interested in me anymore, that she didn't feel loved and appreciated although I was very affectionate and involved. After that, I broke up with her because I thought it was a dead end but then she became more affectionate and interested and then we got back together. What is wrong with her that she is now again not very emotionally close and not as affectionate as she used to be? I don't want to remind her that I broke up with her once.

[Summeroflove]

I don’t know. Some people are like that. If you have to break up again. Do it or tell her what your wants and needs are.

If you have to break up again you need boundaries that you don’t want her anymore. Even as a friend if she’s going to be like that.

[emeraldsaphire]

I wouldn't call these "mood swings" It sounds to me like she only gets affectionate when she's afraid she will use you. That's not love! That's control. Granted, I don't know the full story. She could be struggling with depression or something else. I think it's best to talk to her and find out what's going on. But my intuition tells me this is a red flag, and you should probably break up.

[Anonymous]

She's playing you dude, cut her out of your life for good and never look back.

[boggboss]

Speak to her about ut