Should I base my decision to break up on how she’s been in recent times rather than something that happened in the past?

[Adog27]

Basically found out the first time after I hooked up with my current girlfriend she was chatting shit about me to her fuck buddy.

i feel betrayed even though we weren’t together at that point, I’m 3 months into the relationship and to be fair she has completely changed from what she used to be like and is fully committed to me and acts like and shows she’s in love with me

Should I bring it up with her? She doesn’t know I know or should I just notch it up as her being immature and single and base my decision on how she’s been more recent?

[Guy13]

Take all in consideration but most recent has priority.

[Kori1236]

She wasn’t serious in the beginning. She is now, you can take it into consideration but I would focus on the present.

[Twalli]

She wasn't your girlfriend then. She is now. She obviously changed her opinion about you

[In_Trance]

yeah