Why it is considered weird for a man to ignore women that are not his wife or girlfriend?

Sun_Kim-Ai
Why it is considered weird for a man to ignore women that are not his wife or girlfriend?

Ignore as in, in a romantic or attraction way, not as people themselves.

I come from a culture where it is somewhat normal for a married man, naturally if he is wealthy or holds political power, to frequent women that are not his wife. Both my grandfather and my father had mistresses and their wives more or less tolerated that, because "they were men".

Meanwhile I get made fun of by my wife and my mother because I don't look at other women. They laugh because I say I'd rather get another car than another woman, because cars don't give me as much as to worry about lol.

Why it is considered weird for a man to ignore women that are not his wife or girlfriend?
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